You're right. I'm probably going to hear "Because you allow him too, and you're stupid"
There was this guy I tried to date. He dropped me as if I was nothing. He was very insecure, yet always high of himself. So.. A narcissist. Friday, he rolls around. Messages me months later on how he is willing to try and date me again. To get to know me more. Telling me how comfortable I made him. How I brought in a positive impact to him. He turns that thought around. Is willing to be JUST friends, and I did not allow it. I lowkey thought of giving him a second chance. I think people do change over time, but.. I had no feelings for him. All he gives me is bad anxiety, very bad anxiety.
Do men ever regret? I eventually found my self worth, and it feels amazing..
He is going to do it. There is this theory in my head and it might be true. We don't see what relationship is or are exactly the way they when we are together. It takes some time off time to time to realize if and how much we care about this person. There should be proper breaks in between. If that makes sense. Wrong doers manipulators also keep coming back for more. Even after we shut them down completely from one area of life. If they see another route open they may unknowingly think I can make glorious come back.
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From talking to him and getting my questions answered, he told me how he thinks real love is just toxic.. Though it's not. Then he goes on, telling me how much of a good person I am..
Best way is not to engage. Manipulative people always try to engage us. Engagement means investment. If we feel slightly invested it is not easy for us ti let go again and that's their game
i have a narcissist mother so i know where your coming from i run from people that are a narcissist cause they think they never do no wrong when they cause extreme amounts of trouble your young and take your time miss I'm sure you will find a great guy soon everything takes time miss
Men always come back. They r just scared jealous to c d woman who once gave her a lot of herself will now be giving to some other guy. Also I found u mature in ur messages. and same here man this one guy he gives me a lot of anxiety too like anytime his message appears on my phone my heart pounds fast sthng like being anxious stuff only. Anways if u want to talk about it need some more help in ur matter feel free to talk to me. 🙂👍
Narcissists hate losing their supply, so they won't let you go easily. Prepare for them to promise "to change." They might suddenly start doing things for you that you'd been complaining about. They may say "you'll be lost without me," or "you'll never find someone like me."
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