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We can't go at most 4 months without getting into contact with eachother. he Is a troubled but sweet man but two years ago we developed a connection. He is promiscuous. I am a virgin and knew he was not the one but still fell for him. We've never slept together and are not together. HE came back saying he missed me but is dating someone. He wanted to know if I was dating someone and if I experimented with someone, I don't know why. I told him I had a bad dating experience- and the guy just wanted to fuck and he said, "please don't do that with that guy."
Does he only come back because of that? because he sees me as a challenge?
I wish I could teach him a lesson. I no longer feel the same way. After so much disrespect of cutting me out out his life when he saw fit, he destroyed everything I once felt.
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Girl, this guy just sounds trouble. I think there could be a few reasons he keeps coming back around:
- He likes the attention and validation you give him. Even if you're not dating, he knows you have feelings so he gets an ego boost.
- You represent what he can't have - your purity/innocence. The "challenge" of trying to hook up with you appeals to his player side.
- He may genuinely care for you on some level, but his issues and promiscuity prevent him from committing fully. So he keeps you on the back burner.
- He doesn't want you exploring your options with other guys. Sounds like he likes the control of being your only option, even if he won't commit himself.
Honestly sis, the disrespect of how he's treated you in the past - going no contact then popping back in when it's convenient for him - is enough reason not to let him have any hold over you anymore. You don't deserve to be an option or backup plan. I say the next time he comes around, don't take the bait! Stay strong in your boundaries and show him you're too good to be treated like a yo-yo. You'll meet someone deserving of your sweet self before you know it.
Well, unless he plight a his truth its none of his fucking business.