why do i Always attract insecure guys? Like all the guys that ever liked me & was in a relationship with always turned out to be insecure. for example being overly protective of me , possessive , controlling & jealous for little things. One of my exes even went to the extreme of wanting to look thrilu my phone constantly. & sometimes he would make me feel bad by pointing out my flaws saying i can't dress, or i dress innaprpriately & even saying thingd about my hair!!! ughhh it upsets me so much because i dont treat him like this & i know there's tons of guys out there that would value me & treat me right. Why do i provoke such insecurity in men?