Why do I attract the insecure guys?

[Anonymous]

Well I always seem to attract the insecure guys, sometimes they seems very secure then one I get to really know them they turn out to be extremely emotional. A few guys even after talking after a week start being clingy towards me and telling me everything. I don't mean to be mean but I need somebody who is there for me in a relationship to and not me always acting like the strong one if that makes sense.

does this have something to do with my personality?

I'm as said by others:

nurturing

caring

friendly

giving

adventurous

cheeky

quite before you get toknow

however at worst:

stubborn

can have a bad temper once pushed far enough

evil humored

not committed ( I want to travel and not be tide down)

will I ever find a guy that isn't actually too insecure as to the point they don't put to much pressure on me to be there every single minute of the day?

[imagezofyou]

Umm some women complain that guys don't show their other side and don't tell them what their feeling. Then their are other women who complain that the guys do this.

[Yurippe]

"they're feeling"

"there are"

;)

[Anonymous]

hate how being insecure is okay for girls but not for guys

[Asker]

no I don't mind insecurity, but I mean over the top insecurity,

[Anonymous]

you fit the "cool girl" stereotype maybe? or you're not very pretty/look like the motherly type so you seem approachable.

[savychic]

Maybe they just trust you...