Why are men attracted to things that their girlfriend doesn't have? Is it because of me putting energy into it?

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Hi. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3.5 months. I am so happy... waited 7 years for this. So, when we first got together, he was so attracted to me but I think my insecurities have made him to think other women have assets more attractive than mine. I understand that maybe women can make a girl seem more attractive if we act insecure. But I have been cheated on in the past and compared to women by my exes, so I felt the need to ask my boyfriend questions about the way guys think and things like that. Maybe it wasn't a good idea... because it went from him being a butt guy, to him I notice noticing girls cleavage and confidence with their big breasts.

My body type, is petite. I am 5'2 and 112ish lbs. My thighs and butt are more dominant than my breasts. I sometimes notice him looking in the direction of when women are bending down showing their cleavage and walking confidently with their large breasts. He said he doesn't care about breasts from the beginning, and I believe him, but he also hasn't been with many women in his life so I am unsure if he can be satisfied for the rest of his life with me. Also, we were in bed, and he was grabbing my butt saying my butt is his ideal butt. I asked him "what about my boobs", and he hesitated, and said of course.

Is it the bad energy I have given off, or is it really what he is attracted to?
Why are men attracted to things that their girlfriend doesn't have? Is it because of me putting energy into it?
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