How to stop being insecure in my relationship?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend is one of the most beautiful girl in her college. It's her friend's wedding next month and they are planning for a dance surprise. I just saw the practice session and she and her moves looks really gorgeous and hot. She have the best body shape among her friends.

I'm sure that this dance will circulate a lot in internet.. which may lead to other guys comment on her.. sent messages.. try to flirt with her.. these tbh I'm feeling insecure and jealous. I know this is a bad thing. How to change?

[lightbulb27]

both of you convert to strict Muslim and have her covered in dark black head to toe. Now you see why these cultures do this... it's shame and fear and honor at stake.

ok so that won't fly, she's gonna flaunt her body cause she likes how that feels. So you just have to be confident in your love and not in fear.

you could try mocking a scene to punch out another guy (a actor you pay) who looks at her, to win her honor. that be fun... or she could wear a badge over her belt that says "taken, stay away".

make sure she's the quality, character, values you want not just beauty... cause you will be dealing with her brain and heart a lot more than her body.

[qwert1234]

If she's as pretty as you describe - it's safe to assume many dudes approached her before you. And she chose you. Of all those dudes, you, my friend, are the chosen one.

That alone should bring you confidence.

Also, if she was to cheat or leave you, really nothing you can do about it. So don't think about it. Focus on loving her, being honest to her and supporting her when she needs one.

Good luck, you got this.

[Asker]

This is such a wonderful opinion. Thanks bud ❤️

[melmel123]

if you love her no matter what if it involds a guy saying someting looking at her u won't stop being jelouse u have to trust that she won't do anything i, m going through something right now with my boyfriend he just got a new job at bush gardens and i know there's prob lots of women around him so now everyday when he goes to work i worry about girls hitting on him our him hitting on them cause i love him and i dont want to loes him my point is no matter what ur always gonna feel jelouse when u love someone

[Asker]

Yes you're right. Jealous might be part of relationship

[Asker]

Jealousy*

[kyleelyn199723]

You need to realize that men commenting on her doesn’t mean she’s going to up and leave you for one of the commenters. You may think she’s absolutely gorgeous and it might be true, but I don’t think men will look into it much. Just relax, let her have fun.

[Asker]

Yup. Thanks ❤️

[Daniela1982]

A dance surprise? was it like this one?

https://www.youtube.com/embed/5_v7QrIW0zY

[Asker]

Lol yeah almost