I have trust issues (who doesn’t lol), but it’s definitely gone too far to the point where it’s harming my relationship. My boyfriend does have a history of lying and he has done some shady things in the past which worsened my insecurity. I did decide to give him a chance and move forward, he has been trying to show me that he’s changed and that he won’t make the same mistake.
It’s been months and we’ve had a long talk about his mistakes, he took full responsibility and wasn’t dismissive about it. I told myself that I forgive him but I keep bringing it up again every argument. I’ve also started overthinking about everything which is driving my boyfriend insane.
I’m not looking to break up bcs I actually want to move forward from this, I want to forgive him and stop feeling insecure. I realize that I have pulled back and stopped being a good girlfriend for my boyfriend (in terms of giving mental and emotional support) bcs of my resentment. I don’t want to feel this way, I want to move forward but how do I go about doing this…?
