Men of GAG is it a good sign that my boyfriend is taking me everyday to his parents home?

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He wants me with him everyday. He wants me to stay at his home every weekend and sleep together. His parents love me to death and don't have a problem with the fact that i live there sometimes. He is super stressed that he doesn't have a job at this moment and he can't take me to places and stuff. He used to take me everywhere and spend money on me. Now he has problems and looks super anxious all the time. When he is anxious he spends a lot of time at his PC. Is it a good sign guys that he takes me everywhere with him when he is with friends and stuff? Because i am overthinking the fact he is on his PC. His mom tells me that's how he overcomes his anxiety

NathanDavis · Accepted Answer

it could be a good thing... if this is something that will help him to get better, and will help him to overcome the issues he is going currently going through

however, it could be a very bad thing... if he starts to develop a codependent dynamic with you instead of having a relationship with you ("A codependent relationship is a kind of dysfunctional relationship where one person is a caretaker, and the other person takes advantage") if he starts to turn clingy and needy instead of getting better or working on the issues they it will wear you out big time

DavidRaul · Accepted Answer

He is serious about you. Which is a good thing. he's going through something and wants you by his side. You must be really lucky

Guy13 · Answer

Yes that is good. He obviously thinks that his relationship with you should be like his parents. Go often as you can and interact as much as possible. He is their making both genetically and environmentally. Watch the Family interactions !! Good luck !!

Finchie40 · Answer

Apparently too much of anything is not a good
Thing just like to little of anything is not a good thing either , The fact that he wants
You by his side is because he likes being with you whether it’s his parents house your house etc. But all that matters is he wants you by his side so that isn’t necessary a bad thing , it’s only bad if you don’t want to be by his side as much as he wants you by his side? If you are the one having doubts then that’s something you are
Going to have to decide? The one thing I can say about most of you females is you always want what you don’t have , I am not saying this in a mean way but sadly this is true for the most part especially with my experiences with girl’s I been in relationships with, You girls all say you want a loving guy that makes you a priority , that loves you and takes care of you and protects you but the second you receive that, you find flaws in the relationship and start wanting to distant
Yourself thinking grass is greener on the other side , Females are the biggest hypocrites on this planet , they are never satisfied on what they already have. Because you girls are turned on by challenge and a guy that plays hard to get , a guy that you girls feel is confident and a real man but the truth is that kind of Guy is the biggest piece of shit that doesn’t give 2 shits about your heart , When a guy loves a girl and adores her he becomes territorial over her , because he wants to protect her at all cost , he wants her to look up to him and feel safe and secure and loved by him he doesn’t want the risk of losing her , he knows what other guys are thinking , but she will take it the wrong way and decide that he is insecure and he doesn’t trust me , which is not the case at all , He is showing her he respects her and loves her and doesn’t want to lose her , A girl will love the way her man is treating her in the beginning but eventually she will get bored and think this guy isn’t much of a challenge anymore or she will start comparing him to other guys that her toxic girlfriends are feeding her head with , When a girl starts telling her man she needs space , she is the biggest piece of shit on the planet because her space is a selfish decision on her part , pretty much means she wants to weigh her options , when a girl says those words to me I show her the door and tell her don’t let the door hit ya in the ass on the way out , because if she is going to choose selfishness over me then she isn’t the girl for me , if. Girl can’t stay under the sheets with me then her ass needs to go back to the streets , I want a girl that wants to be by my side as much as I want to be by hers , if she can’t remove selfishness for me Insure as hell won’t remove selfishness for her.

SnowedIn · Answer

While the PC thing is a bit concerning, the rest of it is AWESOME. From everything you say, he really likes you. He enjoys your company. Sounds like you're compatible with his parents. All that is wonderful. What I'd help him do is find the right places/people/solutions for what you write as "he has problems and looks super anxious".

So, in answer to your questions, yes, this is a good sign and a good thing.

Batsy01010101 · Answer

i don't want to say red flags but it really sounds like he's extremely or massively inexperienced on taking women out to places that don't require money and lacks an imagination on how to make an evening or afternoon fun.

if the little teenage twerp had any brains whatsoever he would take you to the park, or to the beach, or if he knows how to ride a bike take you bike riding, or get some ice cream together, or sit at a park, or play frisbee or whatever, or even take you rock climbing if he had the equipment or camping or fishing by a lake. you get the point i'm trying to make he's inexperienced and lacks imagination.

also if he's short on cash he could oh i don't know get off his ass and get a job or do ubereats or doordash or grubhub or instacart if he has a license or he could recycle cans and bottles or find and sell stuff to make some extra cash

part of it boils down to him being lazy and unmotivated

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

1. PC gaming is really fun.
2. He seems anxious because now that he's no longer trying to buy your affection, your relationship is going to be tested for its validity, and seeing as you seem to not like gaming (and apparantly he does), perhaps he knows it's going to end badly in terms of compatibility of geek vs non geek, and he's panicking about it, because he thinks you're hot and kind erwhatever, and doesn't want to lose you.

boggboss · Answer

I'm so confused what's the issue with him being on his pc

lightbulb27 · Answer

not really sure, probably good... I think it means he doesn't want to lose you because he doesn't have a job. You could do well to provide him a better sense of security.

Nikki1989 · Answer

They are all good signs. You could have a good future together.

Cubus · Answer

If he wants you to meet with your parents then I would say he treats it seriously.

Twalli · Answer

Are you my girlfriend? Because you pretty much described me. I guess the only thing that is not me is that I can't hang out with friends due to COVID-19 actually still existing and being an issue.

Truthatanycost · Answer

No, it's not a good sign. A man needs balance in all things in his life. Don't let obsession and excess cloud your true judgement.

es20490446e · Answer

I would redirect that energy to something productive that motivates me.

socair · Answer

Not necessarily a totally bad thing... and it is a generalisation... but a mother will almost always side with her son

disgustingweebtrash · Answer

It's a terrible sign! he's taking you seriously and likes you. How awful.

ChiTown33 · Answer

I this question is a mix of messages to me.

VikingWarLord · Answer

He wants you to be his baby mama and have a whole football team of rug-rats

Wise4myage · Answer

I certainly don't see it being a bad sign.

Brando10222 · Answer

He's a keeper.

MisterTee · Answer

Definitely a good sign.

bean2k21 · Answer

No, a good sign would be a job interview.

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