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That's pretty accurate. The hotter the girl is while also getting incressingly dumber, more boring, or rude, the more appealing she is to have sex with and then ghost or just date for sex.
But an average looking girl will become more and more likely to be marriage material the smarter, more interesting, and kinder she is.
By "go for" do you mean form a long-term partnership? It's true in a way, but it's not a function of physical attractiveness. More men will "go for" an attractive woman than an unattractive woman, but there's no woman that would be compatible with a majority of all men.
Look I and a lot of guys would assume a beautiful girl will be exploitative. It is true that a beautiful girl can get away with things.
Sometimes a girl can be beautiful on the inside and outside but that is rare to be frank.
So I would reverse discriminate. I'd certainly fuck her.
It's been my observation and experience that highly attractive women feel less obligated to work for or exert effort towards a relationship, as though temporary youthful beauty is and should be enough to absolve them from having to exert any effort.
Mostly except for the confidence part. I think most girls who are so beautiful are kind of boring. It's easy to blame it on a guy's lack of confidence but they really aren't that fun most of the time.
Same for guys by the way. How many times do you find a guy with a prom king's 8-pack who can give a lecture about history that has everyone's ears glued to every single word he says? Or scientist who can set Olympic records who can mesmerize people with every word he says?
It was a man do who speaking in the video I was watching that blamed it on confidence ! Lol
Okay, so let’s say she is fun , she can be like one of the guys , communicates well, good in bed… basically the whole package.. would you go for it or feel intimidated?
I don't see any reason to break it off then. That's idealistic. But more often than not, I find something more like this:
https://youtu.be/8al1LR0zPig
I’m seriously dying right now 😂
Romance is always a more powerful feeling than any physical attraction. And with age, that physique is going to wear. With women, that pearly face is going to get wrinkly, hairs turn grey, and breasts start to sag.
I don't want to diminish the power of being a gorgeous young woman. That is so powerful! But any guy gets tired of hitting the same looking-body every day if he can't come up with poetry for why she's his one.
I think this is a greater problem than insecurity although there might definitely be some insecurity if guys date a gorgeous girl with other guys trying to catch her the moment he leaves her in a restaurant to go to the bathroom. But I don't think this is why most men leave such girls.
It's because there's only so much beyond the "bait" of a great-looking body you undress, and the excitement there, to sustain it if you don't build something more. And I'm sure every woman who has tired of a guy with an 8-pack with ab veins popping out and 19-inch biceps can agree that it wasn't her lack of confidence motivating her to end such relationships.
No those women are the ones who get the most attention whether it’s just to sleep w her or a potential relationship. Some may just not want to be w her because they may see her as high maintenance. Maybe they see her as being stuck up since she’s so pretty she thinks the world revolves around her.
I married the most beautiful woman I had ever seen in real life, but yeah, it wasn't easy to keep her. It was like hanging on to her by a thread sometimes but I did it for 15 years because I was never a quitter.
Did you ever feel intimidated, or shy away from pursuing her ever?
Only the first time that I saw her at a party. I thought she was way out of my league so I didn't even talk to her at first, but I was a popular guy back then within the local party scene so she kind of pursued me in a way. Once she started flirting and calling my house I was wrapped around her little finger and completely in love.
Man I wish that was my case 😂 not sure what chases away the one I was after , but after having a thing for a few months wanted to be friends 🤦🏻♀️
Sorry to hear that.
See back when I met her there were no dating apps or smartphones, nobody was on social media, and the internet wasn't a big deal yet. People didn't have 10 other people to message and all that crap. I got to actually live a life where it was just us together in a little house, making love all the time and being inseparable. These days things are complicated.
Not at all, if I think she is the most beautiful then probably others will too. I am okay with that. Trust is not an issue with me. If I am with her then I trust her. If another guy thinks she is pretty then I agree with him. No need to get mad about agreeing with them.
I date people who are friends and are attractive. I had two friends I was attracted towards and it was essentially a coin flip who I asked out. I don't think I found my girlfriend more attractive than the other girl. Niw I di, but I know my girlfriend better and she willingly has sex with me.
P. S. I think my friend would too, because she also likes me, but that's not the point.
That was never my concern before. But after me and my ex split, it wasn't like I was trying to date anyone long term. So dating beautiful women was a challenge that I liked. Then once I started I couldn't stop. I got addicted to the feeling.