Ladies if you want a successful date make it a sober one? Agree or Disagree?

[coachTanthony]

Agree

Disagree

see poll ( I want to do shots off your bald head Coach )

[SteveSmith1985]

I'm pretty sure this applies to men just as much as women. I assume you said "ladies" because you, personally happen to like ladies. (which is fine... Me too). But, I see no gender difference here.

So, yes in most cases being sober is the way to go (or close to it. A glass of wine is fine)

If, for whatever reason you're both wanting to get sloppy-drunk together on your first date... I suppose that's a matter of personal preference.

I think what's most important is that BOTH people are on the same page, and are equally intoxicated. That's how you increase the odds of a successful first date. Assume the other person won't be getting drunk as a default. SO... yes, stay (pretty) sober for a first date. 🙂

[coachTanthony]

It can go both ways for sure. I just focused on women and their reactions and thoughts on this particular one. But I hear ya man.. . thanks for the comments.

[Guy13]

I agree as I don't want any excuse for what was said and done...

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

First time I’m turning down shots, the whole “off your bald head” thing🤣

getting shot faced drunk, yeah bad idea. A glass of wine with dinner shouldn’t be a problem. If it’sa dinner date, otherwise yeah just do a coffee date for first meet

[coachTanthony]

You're missing out HA

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

I’ll take your word for that🤣

[coachTanthony]

Ha Ha Ha

[Date_a_Snob]

@Brainsbeforebeauty your profile picture is a little bit scary

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@Date_a_Snob says someone with no pic. Do you think that really offends me?🤣🤣
Epic fail 🤣

[Date_a_Snob]

@Brainsbeforebeauty my sincerest apologies I thought you were trying to look scary. I'm so sorry I shouldn't have said anything.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@Date_a_Snob don’t worry about it…no matter how you meant it, I don’t offend so easy😊

[musicbrain5]

YES! I absolutely agree. There is no need to drink to excess, or even to drink at all. For anybody. This is also safer, because you’ll have a clear head and be able to look out for yourself in case you get into trouble.

[Specules]

Wrong audience

[musicbrain5]

@Specules Can you clarify that?

[Specules]

@musicbrain5 Your comment was intended for the audience who would agree with you that drinking is completely unnecessary, while this post I don’t think is for that same audience.

[musicbrain5]

@Specules I guess if that’s how you want to interpret it, fine. The question asked if I agree with that statement or not. I don’t care who agrees or disagrees with what I said.

[coachTanthony]

You're comment is fine. Thanks for contribuiting.

[menina]

I absolutely agree. I hate when people get drunk and I don't drink. So a sober date would be perfect for me.

Besides when someone is drunk they end up saying hurtful or nonsensical things, so the date would be a disaster for sure!

[LittleMelissa9614]

I agree, but this is for both men and women. For any successful date, definitely make it sober. Why get drunk? If you get drunk, it probably won't turn out well.

[Nikki1989]

Yes, it is not a good idea to get drunk on a first date.

[NathanDavis]

people get wasted on first dates? lmao...

[coachTanthony]

I've done it. Was it successful... that is up for debate lol

[NathanDavis]

well... I do think that the right people can make it work

just like all sober dates, it's not like ALL of them are successful, lmfao

[coachTanthony]

Nothing is ever binary in life except for whether or not cereal goes in first then the milk. That is obvious. Or is it? lol.. hmm maybe ill do a poll

[NathanDavis]

that's right

[ArrowheadSW]

As a guy, I'd definitely want to stay sober.

[SnowedIn]

I would be messed up if I wasn't sober on any date. And the alcohol affects performance...

[Wish4UrB00ty]

I can’t really say for the girls but I believe in a sober first date!!

[Kingofkings1992]

Obviously. Everything goes better without alcohol

[Minahh]

It's true lol, I have been on three dates, and on two of the I was sober and they have been successful. On the other one, I just knew it was going nowhere so I ordered alcohol lol.

[t_time]

I agree 100%

[Date_a_Snob]

I love your profile picture - orange is my favourite color

[Luopio27]

I dont date drunk girls.