I recently found the guy I like has been talking and flirting with another woman. We are not in a relationship, we have been dating for over 4 months and we connected pretty well. I’m unsure on what I should do because I really like him and but I saw it with my own eyes that he likes that other girl. What should I do? Any advice?
What should I do if he is flirting with another girl?
It is Personality decision time: Is his flirting innocent and something you saw back when you were friends. And you were amazed how he knew and could get along with everyone…And that was very attractive snd drew you towards him. Was, by chance, his nickname Mr. Ambassador? OR
Are you having difficulties and the guy above is no longer present in your life…And, you are out together trying to reconnect and find that guy. But yet knowing your and the relationship as a whole struggles, he flirts with others…you haven’t been F in two months and he’s coming into girls 👧 in front of you…and you can smell the pheromones…. ⁉️ —Did you have this conversation in the honeymoon period where you saw signs but though he would change for you. —Boundaries: intentions, no touching, keep 3 feet etc. “I noticed you were being friendly with and it made me uncomfortable and not safe. Can I share those things with you?” —Get alone and converse without negative, bitter, tonal rollercoaster, itemized list of wrongs and harsh words. —Never respond negatively in public and subtly take control of the situation by changing subject, grabbing partner hand snd change subject etc. 🤷🏻♂️
There is a difference in choosing partner between men and women. Women make a decision who they want to go out with before the going out with him and before the stage dating starts, right? Guys decide who they want to go óut while they are dating.
Because often have to do the more active part of looking for a partner, looking for places to go out for a date and so on we often talk to more than one woman at a time. So that we can decide between those women who date and who to drop.
The situation of your guy is similar. For him dating means that he goes out with you on dates but since you´re not exclusive yet he´s still single and therefore he still has options.
If you want more maybe it would be good to show him or even speak to him about it and tell him that you appreciate the connection between the two of you and that you´re ready for more (only if you really are). Guys are not born womanizers many if not most can´t read sign languages or know a woman´s wishes without her help naturally.
Since we guys tell each other if there´s news or if we want something from each other. He probably thinks that you´re ok with the status quo and that you too still date other guys.
tell him how you feel, maybe he likes you too and just thinks you're not ready to be in a relationship yet. and if he says the feeling isn't mutual between you two then you should stop seeing him if you can't take him flirting with another girls.
I always find it fascinating that on GAG the questions that get the most interactions are the ones where the question asker should probably break up with their partner.
I wonder why people find so much joy in screaming "BREAK UP WITH HIM!!! NOW!!"
If you’re together for four months and you’re not in a relationship and he’s flirting with other women IN FRONT OF YOU, you probably don’t have a future together. Have an honest talk with him about how it makes you feel. If your first instinct after four months of dating is to go and ask random strangers then that’s probably your answer.
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Anonymous
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That girl in the middle is just lovely 😍
But on topic 😅 he’s probably just playing the numbers game. Keeping options open. Not sure if you guys are a thing or if you’re interested in becoming exclusive. He might be starting to move on.
If you’re hoping to keep things alive with him, knowing what you know, I wouldn’t fault him for looking elsewhere or even bring it up, but maybe just next time you see him, be like “hey we’ve been seeing each other for a bit now, can you see us being a thing, or is this not going to work?”
Something along those lines. You can’t not respect that approach, you know?
If you’re not in a relationship then everything is inside of the ‘dating game’. You technically don’t have much of a stance to tell him what he can or cannot do. He can express interest in anybody he wants and so can you. When the both of you commit to a relationship between each other is when boundaries need to be set and respected. For now, let him be him but it definitely wouldn’t hurt to start talking to another guy.
Fight for him. Don't be a Weenie now. If you hold him tight he will understand you're not going anywhere. I love this quality of South Asian wives. They will not leave even if a guy brings a second wife. I hope you learn the lesson. Now, get your sleeves up and act like a fierce lover
If you're dating but not in a relationship then it means that you're not exclusive. You should also talk to other guys, even if you like this guy. He's not necessarily doing anything wrong here.
then observe what the other girl is doing to flirt with him that takes his attention.
if she is wearing sexy, revealing clothes, do the same, but show more skin.
etc...
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Anonymous
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Sounds like you are not exclusive nor official so he is going to flirt with who he feels he wants. However, This should show you he is not into a relationship if he is flirting even in front of you. He may be weighing his own options.
You have been dating for over 4 months and you're still not together? Obviously it hasn't clicked between you two... So it's pretty normal that he's into other girls... Sorry 🤷♂️
According to me he is not a loyal nor commited person, but too early to judge, may be finding right person, so be careful don't fallen love easily.
I hope you ok with the answer.
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Anonymous
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Does he flirt the same with you and by dating but no relationship what do you mean? What do you mean by flirting? because if it was just smiling and saying hi might mean nothing.
It was during a soccer game, I was at the stadium with my friend and we bump into him, he was there with his two friends. One of them was the woman I mentioned. My friend spotted him first and it was a surprise when I saw him flirting with this girl mainly because he mentioned he was with his friends but never mentioned her. I didn’t talk to him, I just saw him…
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