This boy I work with constantly flirts with me and he tried to get my number and social media several times so that we could talk. I obviously have a boyfriend (Which I told him and he didn’t believe me) and I don’t want him anyways... I had no idea he had a girlfriend. I just found out today. The thing is, my other coworker goes to school with his girlfriend and she “accidentally” said something about him cheating on her. If it were me, I would want to know if my man was flirting with other girls and acting single. Come to find out his girlfriend is friends with my friend.
Should I Tell this girl that her boyfriend flirts with me?
She might already have doubts. The worst case scenario would be that she'll have a hard time believing you and try to blame you or pick on you but at least you'd have tried.
The best possible outcome would be that she believes you, thanks you and dump that mofo.
I say if you know her or if that guy's annoying you, tell her.
Personally, I wouldn't say anything unless I know the girl or the guy bothers me. The reason behind that is because if it doesn't bother me, it's none of my concern. I like to steer clear from conflict and drama as much as I can, especially with strangers.
If you tell her, and she doesn't know you, and she goes to him, he's going to say: "No, that girl is crazy obsessed with me and is hella thirsty. She's making shit up for drama!" His nature will come out on its own, better not to get involved.
I would have a serious talk with her and tell her that you have a boyfriend and you are tired of ( mention his name ) always being flirtatious with you and you don't want see her get hurt but you want be honest with her and think she should know what has been going on and tell her you want keep things civil between everyone and don't want see anyone get hurt. Hey your doing the girl a favor. If i was dating a girl , i would like to know if she's been flirting with other guys behind my back and i wouldn't jump to conclusions and take things with a grain of salt.
-------------------------Almost every time you try and do the right thing when it comes to things like this... it always comes back to bite you in the ass.
So No
I wouldn't say anything because it could back fire.
Yes you should. Just because he is an asshole doesn’t mean you should be too. She probably won’t even believe you but at least you took the opportunity to show her the truth. That point, she can only blame herself and nobody else that might have known.
i'm with you, i would want to know too. I say tell her, or ask the coworker opinion. I'm guessing she knows the girlfriend better and would know if she the type to lash out at the girl rather than her "man".
Ever heard the saying "Dont shoot the messenger"? Unfortunately, the one bringing the bad news is usually the one that gets the brunt of the blame and anger. Just be ready to be the bad guy in her eyes
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