Should I Tell this girl that her boyfriend flirts with me?

[Pink2000]

This boy I work with constantly flirts with me and he tried to get my number and social media several times so that we could talk. I obviously have a boyfriend (Which I told him and he didn’t believe me) and I don’t want him anyways... I had no idea he had a girlfriend. I just found out today. The thing is, my other coworker goes to school with his girlfriend and she “accidentally” said something about him cheating on her. If it were me, I would want to know if my man was flirting with other girls and acting single. Come to find out his girlfriend is friends with my friend.

[R_ūshī]

She might already have doubts. The worst case scenario would be that she'll have a hard time believing you and try to blame you or pick on you but at least you'd have tried.

The best possible outcome would be that she believes you, thanks you and dump that mofo.

I say if you know her or if that guy's annoying you, tell her.

Personally, I wouldn't say anything unless I know the girl or the guy bothers me. The reason behind that is because if it doesn't bother me, it's none of my concern. I like to steer clear from conflict and drama as much as I can, especially with strangers.

[ChronicThinker]

Here's the problem:

If you tell her, and she doesn't know you, and she goes to him, he's going to say: "No, that girl is crazy obsessed with me and is hella thirsty. She's making shit up for drama!" His nature will come out on its own, better not to get involved.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I would have a serious talk with her and tell her that you have a boyfriend
and you are tired of ( mention his name ) always being flirtatious with you
and you don't want see her get hurt but you want be honest with her and
think she should know what has been going on and tell her you want keep
things civil between everyone and don't want see anyone get hurt. Hey your
doing the girl a favor. If i was dating a girl , i would like to know if she's been
flirting with other guys behind my back and i wouldn't jump to conclusions
and take things with a grain of salt.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Thanks For Most Helpful Guy :)

[coachTanthony]

-------------------------Almost every time you try and do the right thing when it comes to things like this... it always comes back to bite you in the ass.

So No

I wouldn't say anything because it could back fire.

Don't be a hero.

[SydneySentinel]

Like @Wowgirl30q said, she will probably just get mad. But I'd want to know too

[Wowgirl30q]

Girl will just get mad and plus I'm sure she already knows that her guys a hoe.

[Ellie-V]

Yes you should. Just because he is an asshole doesn’t mean you should be too. She probably won’t even believe you but at least you took the opportunity to show her the truth. That point, she can only blame herself and nobody else that might have known.

[Jjpayne]

Hey, it's win win, I say tell the girl and if your lucky you get to see her slap him upside the head :)

[CubsterShura]

Tell that dude to leave your alone or else you will tell his girlfriend.

[CubsterShura]

You*

[SnowDrake]

i'm with you, i would want to know too. I say tell her, or ask the coworker opinion. I'm guessing she knows the girlfriend better and would know if she the type to lash out at the girl rather than her "man".

[Paris13]

Stay Clear, dear... Don't get Near. Stay Out of It, He is an Idiot, Don't Involve yourself with this. xx

[Alpha09]

Tell her to come get her man. Your also in a relationship and he clearly has zero respect for yours as well as his.

[Wowgirl30q]

That's F$#ked up

[Ephemera1]

Uhhh yes u said urself u would want to know
Oh and call him a dirty whore too pls n ty

[Avicenna]

Yeah, you definitely should say something. This was wrong on so many levels.

[TrapPrincess]

Ever heard the saying "Dont shoot the messenger"? Unfortunately, the one bringing the bad news is usually the one that gets the brunt of the blame and anger. Just be ready to be the bad guy in her eyes

[Marisa00]

I tell them to cut it or I’d say something to their partner.

[the_sinner]

You could just ignore the giy instead.
It's easy.

[the_sinner]

**guy

[blackxbarbiex01]

Yes that’ll be saving the years she will be cheating on her

[Wowgirl30q]

No she will just get mad

[lookin64]

He's not worth protecting rat him out

[The_man_whol_aughs]

Why? leave the poor guy his girlfriend is probably cheating on him with BBC

[Pink2000]

He’s black...

[The_man_whol_aughs]

Could be a small black dick who knows

Listen what I'm trying to say is that you might not want to tell his girlfriend

You know what happens when a woman gets pissed

She will eventually find out on her own

[SilverRain92]

Yes tell her. But only if you have proofs

[MrsDahmer]

In my view, yes. If I were you, I'd like to know.

[WhiteShoulder]

Yes. Defo tell her.

[Sweetnessxoxo]

Yes always be honest