My boyfriend is homeless, what should I do?

[Anonymous]

I started dating this guy 9 months ago, when we first started dating he had a job., a car, and an apartment, he literally lost everything in 2 months by then I felt myself attached to him so I took him in , I shortly realized he has some type of bipolar or anger problem or it could be his situation that's just made him like that, not quite sure but I've had to recently kick him out because my roommate
hated him because of his short temper and we've been communicating but I can tell he's been jumping from house to house and he's running out of places to sleep and my heart is shattered because I can honestly see the pain and exhaustion in him but I don't have much I can do for him anymore.

[Carolus]

How is he still your boyfriend if you kicked him out? Why does your roommate control your relationship? In my opinion, he might be tempered but lack of self independence on your part makes it worse. Just leave him alone, he might hurt you / retaliate out of frustration.

[Asker]

My roommate pays half the rent so I feel like if she doesn’t want him in the house she has the right to want him to leave , I didn’t want to kick him out but it’s also my roommate house too , how do I lack self independence?

[Anonymous]

I do not understand the question.

You asking what to do, but then you say you done everything you can...

In case you want him back, just find place you both could live and move there and tell him that he has to get help with his mental issues first day he moves there and stick to it and obviously get his s**t together NOW or he goes back to the streets. Obviously, if that will get you in harms way (it is looks that way) it would be silly idea and you should not do it.

Otherwise just move on with your life and stop looking back...

[karley55]

No girl let him go, he was probably using you to stay at your place plus the bipolar thing gets worse with time. Sounds terrible but he has to man up & get his shit together. Once you start helping him out, it turns into more & at the end you will be paying everything for him, runnnnnnnnnnnn🏃🏻‍♀️🏃🏻‍♀️🏃🏻‍♀️

[chicosuave]

let him figure it out himself.