I need some advice?

[Anonymous]

I have a history of jumping in head first with relationships. I’m very quick to develop feelings, even before meeting in person. I know what comes after that, every time, but I can’t help it. I’m a deep lover. Too hard, too fast, I fall for a girl. Typically I would like to say for the right reasons, I see green flags light up everywhere. And it happens so fast, it’s hard to catch the red flags. And I get my heart broken. Last time it was bc she was already in love with someone she didn’t know when they were coming back. I knew, and ignored it bc that’s how blindly in love I fall She was only 18, I was 22. Now I’ve been talking to this 18 yo (I’m 23), and everything about her, I like. And I’m worried I’m gonna miss the red flags, and cause myself a world of heartache. The good news is, she was upfront about one thing: She doesn’t want to be solely committed right now. She’s in college, so I get it. At least I know what to expect. Problem is, as much as that should be an amazing thing for me, a non-commitment relationship, I don’t know if I can handle that. It’s a lot harder for me to find a partner than it is her for starters, but idc about that honestly. I’m likely to get jealous, because I’ll get feelings for her, and I won’t be able to stop it then. Should I cut her off? Is it there a key to getting past these emotions so I can enjoy a beautiful relationship? From her interests, to passions, to motivation and drive, she seems perfect for me. What do I need to do to open my mind up?

[Guy13]

Control yourself. not difficult.