Are women angry that men’s options for partners increases as we age while women’s decreases?

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Yes I’m happy for them

No it’s not fair

A total of 13 votes were cast: 7 girls and 6 guys. See detailed results

[HighValue]

Older men can look more masculine from their facial features instead of looking like a boy, plus if he works out he can be in better shape than many young guys. The older man can be significantly more wise from life experience. He also likely actually knows what he does want in life and what he doesn't want in life. He knows what kinds of people he wants in his life and what kinds to avoid. He is much less likely to make as many mistakes in life as someone younger and inexperienced.

Those are just SOME of the advantages he may have BESIDES just more money than when he was younger. The people that think only of money are exactly the greedy types he wants to avoid and they are often the ones that are angry when an older man is more appealing and most women lose their appeal quickly in life.

[Anonymous]

Probably. I'm in my mid 40's and still get approached by women in their 20's all the way up to 50+. But when I was in my 20's, I barely had any interest period. This applies as long as you look after yourself as you get older.

As for that comment about 'if they have something to provide above looks' not necessarily. Arguably all they care about is looks and maturity so I guess in that sense...

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Love to hear that it gives young men something to look forward to guys just need a little encouragement guys like you are proof that the work pays off

[Opinion Owner]

The extra attention started in my 30's. Everyone tried to tell me that when I got older my metabolism would slow making me fat. They said I would get a pot pelly, look worse, that the eyes would get bad, less options with women etc etc. I even had people telling me I would need glasses by my mid 40's.

But our reality does not need to be that way. I actually no longer need my reading glasses because my eyesight has improved. I filled out with more muscle mass. I have no excess body fat and my metabolism is so high I need to drink extra calories to keep weight on!

I only strength train every 2 days using an Isochain doing static traditional barbell lifts. It only takes 30 minutes and I don't even move around! You build just as much, if not more muscle than doing dynamic lifts in the gym that hold more injury risk. Doing the isometric holds also protects your body from injury, protects your ankles from twisted ankle, protects your body from developing hernia and more. You can also build your own if you don't want to buy commercial. It's called DIY Isochain.

Oh and I almost forgot to mention! I did start to get a small amount of gray hair but I learned about the subconscious mind and created subliminal to tell the subconscious to stop developing gray hair. This started to work in 16 days and now my gray hair is going back to normal.

[Adaeva]

It is only partially that way. Beautiful women ages 18 to 22, prefer guys close (within 3 years) to their own age. That doesn't mean that successful men in their low 30s can't attract beautiful young women but they can't compete with younger men that are also successful.

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Right all 7 of them 🤣 plus you’ve never been a young guy most guys don’t develop the confidence women love so much until they’re in their mid to late 30s money isn’t the only thing women like in men in fact for most younger men to be preferred they have to be very good looking which most guys aren’t

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Only women can’t compete with younger women because men Across the board value youth and fertility

[Adaeva]

Nick Smith, Freshman University of Arkansas basketball player is pretty cocky. Look him up. He doesn't lack confidence.

[PainusNdeeAnus]

That’s an athlete I’m talking about normal people

And by the way guys have body issues too especially young guys whether it’s our height, how skinny or fat we are, or not having enough facial hair , chicken legs, bad skin, tiny pecs and penis size guys are insecure and because we don’t get compliments as much as women it takes years for most guys to develop confidence

[Adaeva]

Young desirable guys, whether athletes or not, are confident because they are almost always successful. Your so called normal guys will never develop confidence to ask pretty girls because they are never successful and never will be. What you call confidence means they have learned to never ask pretty girls and to only ask girls that seldom get asked out such as big and homely girls.

However, when they are older, to some extent, they can develop confidence with women over the age of 30 that have lost their bloom and that most men don't want. Therefore, a woman in her 30s may not turn down a guy that she would have rejected when she was a dozen years younger and much more in demand.

Regardless, they will never develop the confidence to ask young pretty women because, if they do, they will be rejected. Even if somehow, they had confidence, they would still be rejected. It doesn’t matter what area of life. If you are successful, you are confident; otherwise, otherwise.

[PainusNdeeAnus]

so women only care about looks

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Got it

[Adaeva]

Although with men it may be primarily about looks, even men care about things other than looks. Women care about looks but they also care about brains, athletic ability, status, future prospects, and money.

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Don’t back peddle now you just said “Young desirable guys”

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Because everything is else you just said comes with age , hardwork and experience

[kylee2437]

It only increases for men if they have something to provide above looks

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Glad you agree

[kylee2437]

I’m not necessarily agreeing here because not every old man has something to offer lol

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Not a guy who is like 90 or something I meant like early to mid 40s that’s not old

And hey the poll says 100% yes so you agree by default

[kylee2437]

I didn’t press the poll though lol and even mid 40s, a guy that age needs to be able to offer more than his looks

[PainusNdeeAnus]

He definitely will though that’s when we hit our financial stride and a lot of older guys have told me it’s awesome they just travel, eat, fuck , relax and are flush with cash I’m looking forward to it

[kylee2437]

So yeah you agreed he has to have something to provide more than looks

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Well that question doesn’t really need an answer because we all realize that most guys will have a lot by that age and it’ll ultimately increase our dating options

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Again it’s still at 100% so as far as I’m concerned you are all happy for men who have way more dating options as we age

[kylee2437]

@painusndeeanus your statement implied that all men magically become more attractive after a certain age which is not the full truth.

[PainusNdeeAnus]

We are though we’ll be more experienced, smarter, more confident , can provide more and will be shredded if we workout a little every day the rock wasn’t always that huge dude is 50

[kylee2437]

@painusNdeeanus those are qualities that are not guaranteed and can only be worked on person to person

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Of course they’re guaranteed with age comes wisdom that’s just a fact of life

[kylee2437]

@painusndeeanus wisdom doesn’t necessarily attract female attraction , it just means you have more life experiences which is a given as you get older lol

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Exactly! Rizz god with age

[alice55]

This si absolutely not true. An old man working a blue collar job isn't going to be more attractive than an old woman having lots of money to take care of her looks (skincare, good hair, good clothes, diet, plastic surgery, etc...).

And also old men that are attractive are celebrities in real life old people men or women are considered equally unattractive. Though men are so desperate that even old women gets more dates / attention than old men. (except if this old men is rich).

usually old men that are popular are popular for their money / status rather than their physical attractiveness.

[PainusNdeeAnus]

I’ve never heard of a early to mid 40s man complaining about dating it’s only women in that age range because you’re less attractive than you were when you were young

[alice55]

Never heard a woman this âge complain about dating cause they re married 🤡
And the men are just extremely unattractive in their 40s they re fat and full of wrinkles
And when women get divorce in their 50s they re extremely happy to be single and not having to take care lf some big baby
I don’t know where you live but i would guess Hollywood 😹

And i ve heard hundred of m’en in their 40s complaining cause they can t find any body cause thé only women who respond to them are in their 60s or at best late 50s
It’s what happen to my uncle only women interrsted in him and older one and same with lots of others

[PainusNdeeAnus]

I highly doubt you know any men other than your uncle

Just say it’s not fair and quit being a brat geez

[alice55]

Dude i worked in some many company i know hundred of people quit being so immature

Why can’t you accept thé true really? Are you really so bitter? And no fait in what? Just look at actor before and now you ll see by yourself that they were a lot more attractive in their 20s then in their 40s 50s and 60s be honeslt you re being ridiculous there

[Rexrectum]

@alice55
Like I said stop acting like a little bitch and blocking people who call you on your bullshit you frumpy cunt grow up

[Anonymous]

You don't get out much, do you?

You are only 24, so I am sure you will gain some life experience one day.

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Thanks! I’m Looking forward to it

[molonski2]

Im happy sure , but I think a lot of women get pissed off , sometimes Big M comes early , men are really only attracted to women who are fertile and remain in shape.

[ChicanaChick]

What's the point if the young women don't love that old man? They're just after his money, after what he provides.

If he were an old guy and has no resources, was poor... then would he still have tons of options? Nope

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Early to mid 40s isn’t old and to be fair girls would only want men for money regardless of their age a gold digger is gonna gold dig

[ChicanaChick]

I actually don't want a man's money nor move in with a boyfriend either. The girls that are after a man's money actually have nothing of their own and likely no real skills either. If we have our own house, our own cars, work for long hours and even have our own family business (clearly capable of supporting herself, then why would I want a man's money and house for?

[PainusNdeeAnus]

You were the one who brought up gold diggers

But I’m glad you’re happy for men who have much better dating lives in middle age

[annabananna]

I don’t really care if my options decrease. I got a kid and a husband. If I am hypothetically single in the future I wouldn’t get remarried anyway and probably just have a good friend if I met one.

[Anonymous]

Yeah. It's funny to watch them try to hide it to.

[Confusedashell123]

I think young women generally want young men and the older ones as in the picture you’ve chosen to accompany your question only have more “options” as you put it when they generally have money.

That being said, I think the same can be said for women these days. Older richer women have more “options” but the men they end up with in all likelihood are just there for the money and what they can get.

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Nope money doesn’t make women more attractive and will be there just for the money even if a guy is young a gold digger is a gold digger

[Confusedashell123]

Money makes anyone more attractive
Two words… Britney Spears

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Nope because men are attracted to youth and beauty which fades with time money can’t stop you from aging

[Confusedashell123]

Women are attracted to young hot men in the exact same way is the point I’m making. I am a young woman and let me tell you neither me or any of my friends, some still in their mid-late 20’s, would be actively looking for a male partner that looks like the one in the picture you’ve posted. He would have to have some other “qualities”.

[Confusedashell123]

Surely this is proven by the fact that all males on here tend to complain that when using dating apps women only want the top 10% of males

[PainusNdeeAnus]

A 40 something year old man has more resources and experience nobody wants an old woman

Men young and old want young women and when I say want I mean a serious relationship not fucking because young guys will fuck whatever female will allow them to

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Describe a top 10% male

[Confusedashell123]

You are definitely describing some weird Hugh Hefner style situation here. Most women don’t want an old man unless the resources you keep referring to are money and a means to keep them in a certain lifestyle. That’s just facts I’m afraid.

[PainusNdeeAnus]

I’m not talking about Hugh Hefner just guys with a lot of money which most men will be by age 40 to 45

Because boys increase our value overtime
Everything a woman has that a man wants she is already born with which is why women can’t increase their value

As women age your stock goes down and men stock goes up

[thegooglepixelfan]

Juat increased in age. Same things with guys that already has partners. Is going get women interested.

[Sasha0426]

I know I’ll never find someone, and that’s ok. I want to die single.

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Stop fishing for compliments you’re pretty why would you choose to die single?

[Sasha0426]

Because that’s what I want. Plus, I don’t have the motivation to find anyone.

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Why do women think they shouldn’t have to work hard to find someone to be with?
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