Would you date someone with herpes?

[Anonymous]

[Looksnicholas]

Only if I ever caught it myself, then I'd stick together with a woman who had it, or exclusively date a woman who had the condition as well, if I ever was diagnosed myself prior to being in a relationship with someone who was clean as I am, I'm a virgin 😬😬😬😁😁😁

[Brokenheartedx]

Thees two strains of herpes, one is the cold sore version that can go on to cause the second strain via oral sex... If u ever had a cold sore on your lip you have herpes

[Looksnicholas]

@Brokenheartedx don't think I've had,

[Brokenheartedx]

If you've ever had a cold sore on your lip, you have herpes virus in your body. If you mean genital herpes, you catch that mostly through oral sex from someone with a raging cold sore on their lip

And seeing as most of the population has been exposed to the cold sore virus it be a very underpopulated world if we didn't go near each other becos of the herpes simplex virus

[Batsy01010101]

Well you can spread whatever std's you have to whoever you want as long as you don't come near me

[artsy_dragon]

I've had it and it is not a problem @brokenheartdx

[artsy_dragon]

Come here so we can kiss you and spread of herpes @Batsy01010101 😘😂

[AmeerX]

@artsy_dragon you better be beautiful to kiss. And no the logic isn't really good regarding herpes and everyone having it. Look many people are not promiscuous. So stop making them think it's normal

[Brokenheartedx]

Ameer ya knob, ever shared a drink with a friend, newsflash you gave yourself herpes... Congrats. Most kids get coldsores from sharing sweets, drinks with each other hence why most of the world has it, those saying eugh no i dont have herpes don't realise that they more likely do have it. It can lay dormant all your life or you can be unlucky and have an outbreak once a week. It's why it's recommended that nobody bar the mother kisses a baby esp on its face

[artsy_dragon]

Couldn't of said it better myself! @brokenheartedx

[AmeerX]

No, actually my friend tries drinking my others glass but I tell him everytime to get back.
I don't think I have shared a glass with anyone but immediate family members, parents and siblings and future children I hope.

[BlueScorpio]

Wth? Lol Would sleep have unprotected sex with someone who has aids? The answer is obviously no, that's putting yourself at risk everytime and it's life ling disease. It's not worth it.

[Asker]

AIDS is not the same as herpes.

[AmeerX]

I think I would give that girl a chance

[BlueScorpio]

I didn't say aids was the dame as herpes I was pretty much saying why on earth would you get into relationship with someone who have an STD that can be easily transmitted to you? I guarantee if you were hiv/aids negative you would not risk getting involved with someone who has a positive status

[BlueScorpio]

@AmeerX are y'all for real? This is why stds keep spreading or even exist in the first place.

[Asker]

@bluescorpio I wouldn’t get involved with someone with aids because aids kill people and make you lose quality of life. Herpes do not do that. Cold sores are herpes and they are normalized throughout society.

[Asker]

@bluescorpio stds exist because they exist. Did you know many people have herpes and don’t even know they do because people with herpes can be asymptomatic

[AmeerX]

Bluescorpio, I know what you're thinking. No I am not saying I did deliberately do something like that. I mean AIDS is a far serious disease. I would have a suicide wish to date someone with AIDS. I think even they know this and wouldn't make a foolish decision to spread it around.

For Herpes, my reason to date or rather marry a girl would be something like this, if it is a milder infection on the oral side and not genital I will accept the risk but she has to offer some explanation. It shouldn't be from promiscuous behavior on her part. Too much to ask? No because I am virgin myself. I didn't fool around so she should be having it from some rape and not otherwise.
Plus I would really look up the idea if she was obedient (somebody said it is to be able to beat the wife, no I don't want to beat her but want her to be on my side on critical things), and beautiful face and would love me. I might consider it.
I am not doing her any favor if that's how she is really.

Asker is not unreasonable but I should tell her that if you're both with herpes and promiscuous in your lifestyle then you better stop doing what you're doing by saying it's normalized isn't true. People live on the entire planet. So far only Northern America and Western Europe has promiscuity acceptance.
Though proper hygiene is extremely important if a person gets it or not. Some harsh words but they are needed to be said as did Bluescorpio said

[Asker]

@ameerx you’re right, it’s not normalized but it’s something that should be because many people have it without realizing they do have it. If you have had a cold sore, you have herpes. You can also spread herpes to someone orally to genitals if that sore is present in your mouth while giving oral. So how many people have done that before without realizing? Probably a lot. Why? Because people aren’t educated on these diseases.

[AmeerX]

Hey, I haven't done it and I don't have it since we don't kiss in our culture publically at least 😅. But I don't think it should be normalized. What happened in the past is a lesson for us all. We should not throw away our bodies in to the trash can. I don't mean to make you upset but prevention is better than cure. Leading cause of these diseases is open relationship and too much sex with lots of people by one person that then spreads it to lots of others.
I don't judge you may be it's not your fault and some jerk just spread it to you. Sorry I am still assuming you have it.
I mean somewhere people had to be put in there place. I mean I don't lie when I tell I have preference for white girls but I think this extra sex stuff is what keeps me back. I mean they are so beautiful and lovely. Intelligent too but they get so stupid when it comes to relationships and things. I mean maximum I have ever done with a girl is hold her hand 🙂. And she meant a lot to me. She is gone though (.

But even we both knew we have to be married to each other if we want to share a bed. You know European and American girls wouldn't be able to remain single if they tried if they just became more modest and less whorish and only fans stuff. I don't mean to say it is completely bad but why do you want to be a man's lust object so badly).

[Asker]

I don’t have it lol a person I know does and he slept with ONE person that he was in a relationship with and she was cheating. So while yeah you may not judge, saying that is should be a lesson is unfair considering he was just doing what many people in relationships do

[AmeerX]

Come on I told you in relationships sleeping is not necessary. I think some hyper sexual maniac came up with the idea 🤣. I feel sorry for him that the girl cheated on him but may be it is time for the reverse in these types of ideas.

And for myself I already told you I wouldn't mind if the girl got it by accident and mentioned how I would want her to live if she is my girl ))

[AmeerX]

And what do you think? I hope it isn't too much to ask.

Your friend deserves someone better

[BlueScorpio]

Stds exist cause of people being careless and not being sexually responsible. Yes I know many people are carriers of diseases they don't know they have which is why it's important to get std screening before getting romantically or sexually involved with someone. We're not going to sit here and try ti normalize having ir catching stds even if it's happening in the world cause it's something that shouldn't happen if people stopped sleeping around.

[BlueScorpio]

Also you didn't specify in your question that your talking about herpes simplex 1/ cold sores, you just herpes which can be genital. Either way, I dint carry neither version and would lije to keep that way.

[AmeerX]

Bluescorpio, I don't have either as well ))
But it is still safer than gonorrhea and Chlamydia 😬. I once saw a picture of a guy with those and it made me puke in biology class.

We're not going to sit here and try ti normalize having ir catching stds even if it's happening in the world cause it's something that wouldn't happen if people stopped sleeping around. ** Just corrected for better understanding )).

Screening the entire population is going to be trouble just like COVID so I will pass due to billions if not a trillion spend on testing.

But your point is valid we shouldn't normalize diseases being okay. I wish people found a cure but I wonder how much the Condom industry makes and contraceptive industry makes from those fooling around with no babies every 8-9 months. I hate to say it but I think European population crisis wouldn't be this severe if they just kept things natural.

[AmeerX]

I get it population is on the rise. It will rise but what do you want to extinct the entire White race and replace them with Chinese and Indians 🙄.
Do your countries a service and grow your populations the natural way. And if you think having children at 25 will make you poor then again. Wealth has nothing to do with multiple children. be optimistic about the future of the world.

Your wealth will not dry up but grow if you have more natural way to deal with these things)). Sometimes I see girls here crying and naturally having a heart I feel upset that what's gotten to them. They need to understand marriage is for a women's safety and relationship security more important than a guy.
Some cultural aspect but I think I will add. Yes guys in my country are horny because we don't have that much promiscuous lifestyle available (yeah I am jealous wow) it brings shame with it if found out. So, I can just say a white girl could score better if she was more traditional and didn't flaunt her beauty to attract boys. It might feel upsetting but Bluescorpio is saying exactly how people should be behaving.

[BlueScorpio]

@AmeerX brush no std is safe lol

[AmeerX]

Of course not 😬. I am just saying those other three scare me more.

And you are right, normalizing std is going to be something abominable

[Asker]

@bluescorpio I think you are rather ignorant and just say stuff because you are brain washed by society. I literally said ahead that the one person I know that has it got it from a long term girlfriend that was cheating on him. How is that him because irresponsible on his part?

[BlueScorpio]

I'm brainwashed and ignorant for thinking people need to be responsible? Interesting. As for your friend, no it's not his fault he was given the disease by cheating lover but if someone doesn't want to date someone with his condition it's not being brainwashed or ignorant to protect your health. With this mindset your going end up putting yourself at risk of catching something if you're not careful.

[AmeerX]

Stop fighting you two. Asker, she is right about the disease part. If you like your friend what do you think? Would you date him as you know he has Herpes now?

We are not judging him. I told you I did date a girl if she was rape how much low do I need to go? Should we just say we who sacrificed our half live staying away from this overly sexualized Risk it all in a whim?

[Asker]

@bluescorpio where did I say it’s an issue whether or not someone wants to date them? It’s the fact that you label people as automatic sluts and slut shame when you think about those diseases. Lack of education and brain washed by society. Also , I am educating myself on them and have actually had a curable one before. Anything else?

[Asker]

@ameerX you sound way more educated in this field than ms. Brain washed shitting up a storm on everyone’s comments

[AmeerX]

Thank but don't take it personal Bluescorpio is not slut shaming anyone. She is saying society especially western society especially the American dreams society should stop what they are doing. It is harming them so much health wise.
I mean think about it. Would you let a guy see you naked to say he wants to marry you or not. Pass or fail? For myself, I don't want someone who would be sleeping around. I mean prostitutes is different they do for money but when girls do it in relationship they end up losing their willpower or rather moral ground. It takes two to tango right? The girl who sleeps with a guy is making him happy temporarily and it shows she is without personality and all about looks. This is nonsensical since if a guy forced a girl into this then that's automatic rape and he gets punished. Fornication is not a good thing ever. Although it is a matter between two people but it has far reaching implications. One that I think is of a girl which they often do is trying to find a person match losing a good match.
Look neither she nor me has any problem we are just taking our time trying to help you and your friend. He had it worst unfortunately when it clearly wasn't his fault but he got cheated on. I think if he married he could divorce her and bring it on record that she was unfaithful. Now, currently that bitch might be laughing how she got best of both guys and infected him with Herpes

[Asker]

Sorry but @bluescorpio is being judgmental and knows zero about STIs

[AmeerX]

Well, we all judge others. Let's not delve into it much)

[Asker]

Uhhhh to judgmental and be uneducated is definitely not a vibe. If you are siding with her, you are just as bad

[Asker]

To be*

[AmeerX]

See you are wrong. I am not siding with her. I have my own opinion. And you have not told us how you feel about it? Would you be with someone who got STDs. I said I would be but she must have something more to her. Not out of sympathy of course. She should be a solid personality.

Of course being promiscuous lifestyle is wrong.
We have saying about bad people, if you try to learn from the fox 🦊 about virtue it will tell you eating deer is a virtue.

[AmeerX]

And sorry you are upset but that how life is. We are not forcing anything on anyone

[BlueScorpio]

How was I being judgmental? I is saying being responsible and using common sense being judgmental? You asked a question and I gave you an answer. I said society is being careless in their actions which is why stds even exist and instead using your brain you got pissy and stated I'm being judgmental? You are obviously naive about life and the world and need a shit ton of mental growing to do if you're sitting here trying to make stds or having one the norm.

[Asker]

@bluescorpio you realize many people have stories where your theory is untrue , right? Lack of education. Go educate yourself

[Asker]

You need mental growing in terms of realizing you lack serious education

[BlueScorpio]

Take your advice first hun

[Asker]

Now quit shitstorming on comments. I respected everyone that said no to dating someone with an std , but what I don’t respect is ignorant comments where it’s obvious someone has never educated themselves

[Asker]

You are the only person here where I have issues with since you lack education and are trying to make judgements

[AmeerX]

The education about sex is not right to begin with.
People just end up doing the same thing out of curiosity.
Bluescorpio is right because people shouldn't be sleeping to begin with. No sex and no STDs.
No bamboo so no flute

[Asker]

@ameerX ignorant. People are allowed to have sex

[AmeerX]

Married people are allowed this ideally.

[Asker]

@AmeerX yep because you make all the rules and regulations

[AmeerX]

I am not trying to go to a high moral ground with this but alright. I admit I don't make the rules 🙄

[Summeroflove]

Probably not unless she was a repented of her past what or she was raped then it’s about love to me.


But if she sleeps around. No. Especially not with that

[AmeerX]

Yeah I think you are reasonable. I did pass a promiscuous girl. But I will safeguard a girl with rape victim.
I know I am virgin and could probably do better man but if God wants me to save a soul I don't think I will pass the opportunity. I do expect her to be good in other things like she is beautiful otherwise, obedient and submissive and faithful

[Sasha0426]

@AmeerX Obedient? Dude, you’re gonna die a virgin. No woman would be stupid enough to be with your abusive ass. I feel sorry for your mother.

[AmeerX]

@Sasha0426 🤣 you guys seriously don't know what obedient really means when someone says it?
It means loyal in a submissive way. Why do you hate that word so much?
I also wrote submissive and you are okay with that?

[Sasha0426]

Obedient means you want her to do everything you want without questions asked and she can’t say no.

[Sasha0426]

And if she did say no, you would beat with an inch of her life.

[AmeerX]

@Sasha0426 umm 🙄 you get to beat her if she isn't obedient?
You crazy why would I beat her. And by obedient I mean she follows my lead. I seriously find it so weird why everyone here keeps thinking obedient is a punching bag for wife. No that's not what I meant at all

[Sasha0426]

Because that’s exactly what it means, and you know it.

[AmeerX]

@Sasha0426 stop imposing meanings. You in I didn't meant it in that way.

[Sasha0426]

If you tell a woman she’s had to be obedient, she’s going to run for the hills.

[Sasha0426]

*has

[AmeerX]

@Sasha0426 whatever, submissive orobedient. I think they are both same and it certainly doesn't mean beating one's wife 🤣.
And a lot of women are subconsciously obedient to there husbands if they respect him enough

[Summeroflove]

@Sasha0426 you’re the one always saying how men hate you and everything. So I wouldn’t be attacking someone calling them a virgin if I were you.

Maybe he just has better morals

[Summeroflove]

@AmeerX yeah she has to be a good person. Sasha is someone who hates men so just disregard her

[AmeerX]

@Summeroflove, thanks but I think she just got triggered 🙄. But it's alright, she had ambiguity. I sometimes also burst it too.

And come on Sasha0426, she has Herpes due to some reason. Is it too much to ask if I am degrading my standards for her. Disease with no cure in a wife in exchange for my virginity and health. I think it is supposed to be a balancing act.

[Summeroflove]

@AmeerX probably did. I’m not even trying to bash her. It’s just the fact she talks about how men don’t want her. Yet she’s calling someone else something

[AmeerX]

Summer, it is alright. May be she was ridiculed. I hate some girls too.

Let's be gentlemen 🙂

[Summeroflove]

@AmeerX eh it is what it is. I have had pepppe be nasty to me. But I don’t take it out on those who don’t deserve it.

I’m very nice to most women but bitches aren’t worth my time being nice to

[AmeerX]

I saw her question about wanting to die alone just now.
May be she has depression ((
Yeah I don't know if I didn't have time I would say that same thing too

[Summeroflove]

@AmeerX maybe I don’t know

[Sasha0426]

It’s fine y’all hate me.

[Summeroflove]

@Sasha0426 I don’t even know you lol

[dustybiker]

It’s pretty common. My sister caught it off a drinking fountain when really young. Simply not letting the water run long enough before sipping. You can catch it from someone preparing your food or sipping a friends drink, etc. It’s not a deal breaker or necessarily a sign of cheating, to add, either.

[BlueScorpio]

She's not talking about cold sores, she's talking about the ones that set your whole crotch on fire with blisters and pain.

[dustybiker]

@BlueScorpio You make it sound like she has a legal footer telling people how they can and cannot respond. She doesn’t. Take a breath. Get over yourself.

[BlueScorpio]

It wasn't that deep, chill out

[Asker]

Cold sores on the mouth are no different than gentian herpes. So I’m talking about both

[Asker]

Genital*

[dustybiker]

@asker Exactly. She just wanted to embarrass herself. Ignore her.

[BlueScorpio]

Embarrass my self about what? You guys are lacking common sense about this.

[dustybiker]

@BlueScorpio Are you still here?

[BlueScorpio]

I wasn't until you @ me.

[dustybiker]

@BlueScorpio ridiculous. smh

[dustybiker]

@BlueScorpio Really capped off the truth about yourself. Go away already. Boring af.

[dustybiker]

@BlueScorpio Right. Clear as day not what happened. ✌🏻

[dustybiker]

@BlueScorpio and you are 31 starting this lame shit….

[Asker]

@bluescorpio how did you manage to shit storm on everyone’s comments with your brain washed mind about how things work?

[Onlyonceatime]

No, I don't want any std and have to take pills for the rest of my life just for some pussy from some broke bitch. But I am sure there are plenty of incels on here that don't mind having a red dick and being stuck on pills and Medicaid for the rest of their life.

But I am a man of means, so I don't have to settle.

[Asker]

Why couldn’t you have said this without going anon though?

[Onlyonceatime]

There it is off. Make any difference now?

[Onlyonceatime]

Why couldn't you ask this question without using a feature on the website?

Retards with the same stupid argument about anonymity. Anonymous or not, it doesn't change shit.

[Asker]

Because I am essentially protecting my identity while asking a question that has to do with my real life, meanwhile you were hiding behind anon to slander people. Very huge difference.

[Asker]

And the way you communicate with people is rather aggressive, I think you can use a little therapy. Can’t imagine how you handle your real life day to day life when you have the ability to type like that.

[Anonymous]

Yes I have in the past. She was on medication to keep it surpessed and I wore condoms anyway. I would not have had condom-less sex with her even though she was not having an outbreak and she was on the medication. And of course she didn't want me to go condom-less anyway. She loved to give oral, so that was pleasing to me for sure. She of course didn't want me to go down on her, but she loved to masturbate and use vibrators while we were intimate. So we still had a fun sex life.

[Sour-rose]

I probably would. Just because the only way they'll touch me by hugs or slappin' my ass a few times of the year. Aaand just googling it... i still wouldn't mind just datin' 'em.

[Massageman]

There are many kinds of herpes.

Like it or not, about 90%+ of the world's population carries the herpes simplex virus. Your odds of finding someone who does NOT are rather thin.

Herpes simplex is commonly called a cold sore.

[artsy_dragon]

I've had oral herpes. Oral herpes caused by HSV-1 can spread from the mouth to the genitals through oral sex. This is why some cases of genital herpes are due to HSV-1. So yeah I guess lol

[Batsy01010101]

That is disgusting

[artsy_dragon]

Not really everyone gets cold sores at one point or another

[BlueScorpio]

I've never had a cold sore in my entire life so no I don't think everyone carries hsv1

[artsy_dragon]

I think you're right tbh

[TrueConfection]

I don't carry that virus, so no I probably wouldn't be comfortable taking that risk.

[Labokachulaa]

No! I've never had anything, so, I wouldn't want to put myself in the position to get that.

[rienna888]

No lol I know some guys are scum and will pull off their condom during sex.

[Asker]

And what if they don’t pull off the condom and are very communicative with you about it?

[rienna888]

No I don’t wanna risk it. But then I understand sometimes when you love someone a lot, you’ll be able to forgive it. Cuz I might be able to depending on how much I love them and how they treat me

[olabira]

I just Googled there is no cure for herpes so I’m going to say no to this question.

[AmeerX]

There is no cure for diabeties would you also not date a guy with such a condition?

[olabira]

@AmeerX it’s not the same since herpes is contagious and diabetes isn’t.

[AmeerX]

I suppose you are right.

How would you propose them to find an intimate partner?
People with herpes deserve someone too?
May be they got it through accidental unhygienic reason and not necessarily their own fault

[olabira]

@AmeerX I could tell them there are billions of people in the world so it’s likely there would be more than one person who is willing to accept them or date them.

[olabira]

I did think Herpes was contagious without Googling. I just wasn’t sure if there was a cure for Herpes.

[AmeerX]

Oh yeah, I thought it was contagious and had a cure.
But I feel if a girl was raped and she got it there then I might have some mercy on her even if she didn't want the same

[olabira]

@AmeerX okay

[AmeerX]

If it is curable then why not. Otherwise like AIDS I might stay clear of them.

[Asker]

Herpes is not curable , however it’s not like AIDS

[AmeerX]

Umm, I would still be curious how she got it?
I think STDs are prevalent in promiscuous people. But I won't judge her. If she is someone good personality wise and was honest then I don't see a problem.
I would just hope she is someone really special if I stay with someone like her.
I always thought herpes was curable. I did stay clear of gonnorhea and chlamydia for reason I think they are severe then herpes though

[Asker]

Actually herpes is more severe than those. I have had chlamydia and it has gone away

[legalboxers]

someone asked me to, and I wouldn't... even with a condom

[UniquelyBasic]

Yeah, I would.

[exitseven]

I don;t think so.

[Guardian45]

Depends. Is it under control?

[Asker]

It’s under control, but there are flair ups and that’s usually how people catch it

[Anonymous]

if they take meds

[LiamJHayden]

Not knowingly.

[Agape93]

Not a chance in hell

[Jmmmfi4]

Would anybody?

[BarryLiverstone]

Of course

[Anonymous]

No. No way.

[Anonymous]

Nope.

[Anonymous]

NOPE!!

[Anonymous]

Nope

[Anonymous]

HELL NO!!!

[Opinion Owner]

I had an ex from 1999 who flat out lied and withheld that information from me and still tried to get me to have sex with her. I turned her down repeatedly multiple times and she was the type who would cheat. A few weeks later my friend (now ex friend) came to me and told me she had an std genital herpes and i said thank god i didn't sleep with her
Last year i was taking a piss at a urinal and two guys were in stalls taking a shit and one guy said to his friend some woman made his dick green after he fucked her and he couldn't stop scratching his crotch or his dick and i stood there thinking dude i don't want to hear this. After i finished taking my piss i just left