Is it weird my boyfriend takes 3 hours to respond sometimes?

[Anonymous]

Today he hasn’t replied for 4 hours. Am I overrreacting? It’s 8pm and I always wonder what he’s doing. We been together for 2 months

[Reece12345]

If this is a common thing, then it's a red flag.

It shows he doesn't care too much about your feelings. And that means it's time to have a serious talk about it and/or or move on.

You're not a nag, you love him, right? If he things that you're caring about him is a hassle, then it's time to find someone who's dying for a text from you, who will be happy to get it, and will reply fast.

[Truth0225]

If it’s a common thing then yes it’s an issue

[Asker]

It is a common thing but u just don’t know how to go about it as I don’t want to nag

[20yearsolder]

I don't think it's weird, is it weird to you? Respond to much sooner than that

[JPresidente]

If he's not working or at school, visiting family or running errands, then that's an issue.