We recently had an argument, and he's very apologetic. He has a nature of secluding himself when he is trying to regret, feel sorry, or is hurt. I'm kind of freaking out because of this nature of his and want him to come back to our normal routine as soon as possible. It's not like we are disagreed on anything still. We haven't fought and do not have more complains. He said a lot of apologies, but i'm trying to make him forget it. He's not able to. This makes me think of weird questions to ask him for my assurance of our relationship. Any piece of advice from GAG?
There are some questions you dont ask
“Do you love me if i was -”
“Do you think im pretty”
“Would you leave me”
If he is with you let that be enough. If he wanted to leave you he would. Men are creatures of actions. These mind games dont go over well with us. If he needs time to work on himself then imagine what would happen if you put these unnecessary thoughts in his head. He probably has thought about it but those are thoughts. You suppress those thoughts and focus on working threw the problem. The more you overthink an issue the harder it becomes to fix it
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Yeah. If you feel like asking. Ask. But make sure you want the answer. Wish you the best.
Sometimes people have to ask hard questions.
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If he’s secluding himself then you need to give him space to heal. If you try to force him back that’s going to come off as a negative to him. So just let him work it out and trust he will find you when he’s ready.
Why freak out?You can, but you may not like the answer. He may ask you if you have thought about leaving too.
You're not going to like the answer.
Play stupid games win stupid prizes.I can answer that one, he thinks about it everyday.
I would advise against doing this
Yeah ask him
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