Should I ask him if he ever wants to leave me?

[Anonymous]

I have been feeling neglected. Even after we make love, I couldn't satisfied any more. The feeling I have kills me. What do I do?

[Cynicaldreamer]

Have you actually discussed how you feeling with him? Not to be cynical, but sex doesn't always equate love and happiness- as you're currently feeling.

Sit down with the guy and ask him is he satisfied with you, the relationship, and tell the guy you're not happy! If he really cares about you, ideally he will want to talk about ways to not make you feel neglected and ignored.

But if he brushes it off? Yeah. I mean it could just be your own insecurities about the relationship and/or yourself, but without more details, we can't really help you. Seriously, just talk to the guy and see if he wants to help you feel better.

[Asker]

Every time I want to ask him, he would act more caring "temporary" which made me cancelled to ask about it.

[Asker]

I dont want to make fuss/drama.. I'm sacred if it was just my insecurities.

[Gent207-2]

What does he do specifically that males you feel unloved? Use these answers in your talk with him.

"I feel like you don't love me when you don't cuddle after we make love" (for example).

You are giving him a specific problem with a specific solution. If he doesn't take the hint than he truly doesn't love you

[spartan55]

Don't ask him that. If you aren't happy then break up. To put it on him is manipulatve and bullshit.

[balyai]

It's normal go for it

[Anonymous]

If you're not happy end the relationship