Now that my friend is dating my ex's friend, she's been hanging out with them more and I barely hear from her now (like a trio). What should I do?

[Msnsns]

[Anonymous]

You’re feeling a bit left out, but really you shouldn’t. Personally I would not focus on the fact that they’re “a trio”, because they’re not. It isn’t like they’re all friends hanging out without you. For your friend, your ex just comes with the package of dating his friend, it’s not by her choice. I’d say the only thing that should matter is that she isn’t making adequate time for you, which you could easily talk with her about. I’m sure she’s not trying act different on purpose, she’s just trying to prioritize her relationship and isn’t as available as she used to be. I think once you mentally remove your boyfriend from the equation and look solely at her position, you’d understand better, even if you aren’t the same way.

[whorable]

she probably just figures you don’t want to be there bc of your ex. other than that it’s normal to not hear from friends when they’re in a new relationship. but if she’s not there for you or ignoring you maybe it’s time for a talk with her

[In_Trance]

Are you really 35?