Should I date an ex’s friend?

[Olivinator44]

I’ve been friends with my ex for a while now. We have not dated in 2 years. His friend seems interested in me. Should I date him?

[Avicenna]

If you like him, sure.

[Oliverlogan263]

It's kinda a tricky situation, dating your ex's friend. A few things to consider:

- How's your relationship with your ex now? If things ended messy, it might make things awkward. If you're just friends, it's less of an issue.

- Will your ex be cool with it? You'd wanna make sure he's not going to feel weird or betrayed about his friend dating you. Better to check in first.

- Would it mess up the friend group dynamics? If they're close friends, it could cause tension if things didn't work out between you and the new guy.

- Are your feelings for your ex completely in the past? You don't wanna start something new if part of you is still hung up on him at all.

If things with your ex are solidly just friends now, and you genuinely like his friend, it's probably fine to go for it. But I'd communicate with your ex out of respect first before fully committing. As long as everyone's cool with it, shouldn't be an issue. But you know your situation best - follow your gut!

[exitseven]

Yes, you are dating his friend and not you.