Recently I’ve been texting my friends ex a lot (him and I were friends before they broke up). We have great chemistry and can talk for hours. He sometimes even flirts with me. I’m starting to really like him.
i won’t date him now since the breakup was recent and my friend is still not over him. I’m just wondering if it would be an option a few months down the road.
- No way
- Sure. Why not
Most Helpful Guy
JC, nice, so there it goes again, poaching ex's bro... there goes a perfectly good friendship destroyed by desires that are probably fleeting, you are destroying your friendship with ex, his friendship with the guy who's his friend that you're interested in and eventually both will hate you when it all falls apart, how about just finding someone new? Nah, just go mess up people's lives, drama is fun for women, enjoy! I don't sugar coat anything, like it, don't like it, I don't care, here to help, enjoy!2
Most Helpful Girl
Fuck no. My friend just did that to me (he was my first boyfriend and now she has a thing with him). I’m pretending I don’t care because she’s still my friend and I want her to be happy, but I’m actually still pissed. Even though I am over my ex, I’m still upset because she told me she wouldn’t date him... But whatever, fuck fake friends. We barely talk anymore anyways. I say just ask her and see what she says (keep in mind she might lie because she wants you to be happy)... But if I had to say, I’d tell you not to do that. It’ll hurt her a lot and you may not stay friends. And considering you’re under 18, the relationship probably won’t last anyway, your friendship will. Keep that in mind.2