Why do men not trust me?

[Anonymous]

I’m a attraxtive woman not in a vain way but I am very pretty but I always get called sexy rather than beautiful. My boobs are large so if I even cover up u see them and I don’t know if this has anything to do with it. But whenever I’m dating I get the same kinds of response saying that they don’t trust me. I’ve had a man ask me to be in a relationship officialy because he wanted to make sure that I was all his and not cheating as he didn’t trust me while we were dating and thought I’d speak to others. I don’t understand, I’m very lovely and I help out a lot and do things for people. And I have NEVER cheated. I always thought it was an excuse but when it happens every single time and I’ve heard similar things been said it’s weird, they will always keep me for sex but claim they don’t think I’d be very loyal.

[jorfan3]

It sounds like they are reflecting onto you, and that you aren't dating good quality guys.

It is kind of unfortunate that you're so attractive in some ways, because that means you have to fish through more men than the average girl :/ I'm sorry. Don't give up, and maybe initiate interest in a guy YOU choose, rather than them choosing you. Try a guy that seems really down to earth and humble. It seems like all you keep getting is insecure players who know you're too good for them, but they need to prove their dominance.

[Anemone978]

Guys think if you are attractive you are automatically sleeping with everyone. A guy I wanted to date said he doesn't want to date me cuz I'm too pretty, and he was like you expect me to believe I'm the only guy? its like what the heck?

[jshm2]

Reads more like you're dating insecure guys, who want to control you.

Not a good way to live, deary.

Not saying you should be out there dating bisexual, polyamorous nutters, who would fuck a duck to get a laugh. But if the partner you're with is deflecting onto you, or not making you feel good about yourself or your relationship, then it's not really someone you want to keep around.

[Summeroflove]

If someone keeps you for sex they’re projecting who they are onto you. They’re the ones using you and probably cheating.


As well as good men many times want to wait until marriage and want a woman whose the same.


But that’s neither here nor there. Also… it takes time to build trust.

[MrNewton]

The guys are insecure. Tbh like someone mentioned here get a good dude. They may consider you out of their league and hence project their insecurity on you.

Based on your self description, you deserve a guy who treats you right like you deserve and not someone who treat you like shit.

[Anonymous]

It's not necessarily anything to do with you. A lot of people do cheat, and statistically women cheat more than men at your age, so I think guys might just be insecure, especially if you are as attractive and sexy as you say.

But it could be possible something about your personality, or how you interact with people, might give men the impression you might cheat. Are you overly friendly with other guys? Even if you have no intention of flirting, it may come off that way.

[BarryLiverstone]

Are you good at flirting? Sometimes guys feel insecure when a girl is open with strangers and touchy or talkative.

[Anonymous]

You had me at large boobs! lol! What size are they and how do they fit your frame?

[Anonymous]

Have big heart not big boobs.

[Asker]

I do have a heart a very big one I do everyhing for everyone

[Opinion Owner]

Don't do everything for everyone... you will lose your importance in their live.

[Opinion Owner]

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