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No, I don’t.
And this is part of the reason that I don’t date.
I’d prefer to know someone before dating them and get an understanding of what kind of person they are, and likewise.
I never had, nor expected sex on the first date. I feel like on the first date you still barely know each other, so that’s way too soon for me to sleep with someone.
I'd like to get to know her first, so I can see that she likes me as a person. I hate it when it's just like a one-night stand and that's it because we don't get along.
Zero expectation of that. If there was chemistry and it happened, then sure! But no expectation. And paying for a date doesn't = sex. Ever.
No. In fact if she pushes for sex on a first date I will lose her number. I know I'm not "all that" so if she wants it from me I just assume that is her normal, and I outgrew that phase years ago.
Nah... i hit it first. Sure if she wants sex that fast, I am not interested in a long term relationship with her. But I asked her out for a reason or accepted the date for a reason. That reason being she's attractive enough to have sex with it the opportunity arises.
I never expect it on the first date, but if she is pressing for it I am going to take advantage knowing there's probably never going to be a second chance. If I refuse she's going walk, the fact she's so forward is a turn off as far as relationship wise goes... but I am not opposed to some unabashed monkey love.
But let's be honest this hasn't happen for since I was in my 20s.
No I have sex a year after our first kiss before then I do all the other sexual stuff that’s available to us.
I don’t expect it on a regular date.
But if I’ve made arrangements for a hook up, then I am expecting it, obviously!
I never expect it however if I’m on a date & both of us are hot & horny for each other it usually happens.
No, just went with the flow and made sure to make a move if the vibe was right to show interest and to avoid the friend zone.
No. I've had sex on the first date plenty of times, but it's not the expectation. I also don't overspend on the first date. That keeps expectations all around on the same level. No one needs to be wined and dined on the first date. If you aren't ok with trading sex for a nice dinner, then don't demand a nice dinner. Problem solved. We'll go to Chilis.
I made a mistake once and went on a date with someone and she brought me back to her place and I like an idiot, I did not catch the hint that she wanted to. I was an idiot... lol.
No I do not expect to have sex on the first date. Or second.
I that's a bit ambitious BeeBella. By the third date I'd be like a powder keg though.
No, I never did. I'd always expected to wait until marriage, which I did.
Nah i dont know that mf nor where his dick has been. He won't get sex outta me anytime soon
I don't expect to have sex on the first date
I find it gross and disrespectful if that's what someone expects
id like to be married and have sex soooo yeah
Not unless I was lead to believe that before or during the date
Sex on the first date. I don't think will happen.