For flings & casual sex, men don't care much about a woman's past and personality; however, anything committal they do? Thoughts?

[Anonymous]

[Guy13]

Women, most guys start off evaluating for Wifey material. We too can feel and know when you are lying. Men are visual creatures and the image of guys lined up, head turned back, and leaving the bedroom is not a good one.

Both women and men lie about their sexual history for a reason. Specifically for me, as one with less than one hand of sexual intercourse, high body count matters in all "situations" as well as judgment and personality. For body counters and porn watchers for that matter, STDs, unrealistic ideas of sex, drudging through someone else's clogged septic, inability to connect, and tendency to jump to the next body or new experience when "buzz" wears off, are concerns.

Catching feelings into long-term is not a possibility. Once "caught" she will lose interest and start looking for the next relational "buzz". Neuro journal research actually proves that the brain is rewired in high body counts' and porn watchers' mind. The ability to have LTR is infinitesimal when compared to the Norms. "Hooked" on Amazon..5ish years old now.

What am i supposed to do with a 23 year old who got in a relationship that is somewhat disturbing and she was to hit a certain number per month for 3 years starting at 19 years of age.-This is why a child does not date a 30 year old man. And a 25 year old that straight-up gasped-smiles/laugh and said, "you're sweet".

I am almost certain that these two now lie about their history after conversing with me. I've got girlfriends, being perceived as the possible gay friend, with less body count than those two and I will not introduce them to my professional friends although they force their way in... And when, one in particular asked me about her, I did not lie and he did not want anything to do with that... We know too so don't make it worse. We may not let on or even care but we know whether you're "shy" or have your junk, in personality and flesh, hanging out everywhere.

[OlderAndWiser]

If you are RENTING a car for just a few days, you assume that it is in sufficiently good condition for the time period you will have it. If you are BUYING that car, you have it checked out by a mechanic and you get a CarFax report.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

They give themselves double-standards for women that suit the needs they’re looking for at the time. Otherwise, I don’t imagine they care about women as much as what the woman can do for him.

[Asker]

I don't know if any of that is particularly true.

I just think, there are women out there that are undoubtedly not good for men, would you agree?

It's also a fact, sadly or not, that men will have sex with nearly anything.

It says more about men than a woman.

Now, a woman can be bad for a man yet a man will not turn down sex with her.

Yet, commitment is where the line is drawn for so many men.

They'll have sex, but won't do much more than that, let alone marriage.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Yeah, I’m not saying there aren’t people you shouldn’t date, but the way men approach sex and the way women approach sex are usually two different things for very different reasons and I could give a whole feminist theory tedtalk about it but I’m sure that would just bore you.

What I’m talking about is also about how men will have sex with just about anyone that offers whenever they can, and how that in a way is a kind of sexism. As long as it’s a woman, it doesn’t really matter if she’s girlfriend material, or even attractive, as long as she’s consenting and they want some.

[Asker]

I agree with everything said

[coachTanthony]

I would agree with that. And the sooner they sleep with you the more you know about their past.

[AviatorTom]

Past actions can be an preductor of future actions, which can be important in a committed longterm relationship. If all you're doing is hooking up, with no idea of any future commitment, it doesn't matter what someone did in the past.

[Justin1019]

You stupid retarded moron!

That's exactly why it's called casual sex! It's just casual! Nothing serious! Just have your fun with her! Dump her! Then forget about her!

I mean for fuck's sake, women into casual sex are literally no better than literal brothel prostitutes!

No logical decent man marries a brothel prostitute!

Casual sex is what the fuck she asked so that's all she's gonna get! Don't try to make it into some romance fiction level deep true love forever commitment! You fucking dumbass!!!

Of course, we boys don't give a fuck about a girl's personality and past if it's just casual sex because all we care about if she's physically attractive to fuck! Then we leave her ass and move on!

Also, women into casual sex are not wife material for logical decent men! For logical decent men, they're simply disposable undignified whores that don't deserve respect and will probably be forever alone.

[Berethor]

Men have lower standards for women that they hump and dump, does it surprise you?

[EaterPeter]

Try buying a home and see what all you think. It's a commitment for a life you better think or end up unhappy like me.

[bamesjond0069]

Yes. For casual sex just look good and be available.

Body count and personality and other things matter for a relationship.