Is the beach a good first date?

Question

I love going to the beach , its like my favorite thing to do , but is it a good spot for a date?

i mean would it be weird wearing a bikini on a date there? like i dont mind wearing it but i just wanna know would that make me look desperate or somethin , if u know

I also want to have long walks in the sand and play in the water..

overall would it be a good place?

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

On the beach that I visit, long walks are certainly possible because there are four miles of undeveloped beach. That means that you can end up alone on the beach with your date. If you don't already know this guy, here you are alone, your body barely covered and on display, with a guy who could be intending to force you to have sex. Is that what you want?

Until you know a guy, you should be thinking about safety. The problem is not that something bad is LIKELY to happen; it's probably unlkely. But if it does happen, the consequences are life-changing and that justifies taking precautions.

coachTanthony · Accepted Answer

Yeah if you all live near the beach and surf and what not. If you are 2 hours away then i would say probably a good 5th date.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Yes!!! My husband and I first started flirting at the beach our first day was off roaring on the beach he set up like a picnic for us and he got to see me in a string bikini 👙 worked for both of us!! We were married 2 years later lol!! Yes it’s fun dinner dates are fine, movies yuck not for first date you can’t talk to the person. Something fun so yes beach 🏝️

Red-Blaze · Accepted Answer

I will say good place, but not in a bikini
First daye should be knowing each outher, if you like beachs that is good
But you should try and talk, and bikini can be really distracted for them
Its better something more modest so you guys can focus on knowing each outher more

Jemini_Crocket · Answer

I don't think so. I think beaches are beautiful and I wish I could walk there every day or whenever I feel like it, but first date is about getting to know each other and I feel like the beach isn't right for it.

Plus, I'd be a little uncertain because of my looks, nobody's perfect, but still.
And I must admit I do not know how to swim :D :|

CubsterShura · Answer

Depends on how you execute it and who you're going with. Most of the romantic experiences you have at the beach are quite intimate in nature even in a modest swimsuit or cute summer dress, so I'd find it a bad idea to go on a first date with a stranger to the beach. I feel like it's someone you should experience with someone you're also familiar and close with.

SnowedIn · Answer

Very good date. And here's why: you love the beach. That means you'll be comfortable there and relaxed and if you're those things you'll have fun.

ShadezMcgee · Answer

Well, you are both outside, in an environment that encourages interaction with each other, you can swim, play volleyball, drink and have ice cream. Yeah, I would say it is a good first date spot.

Daniela1982 · Answer

Sure, if you are interested in seeing what their body looks like. But is that really a date or just a creep show where you can ogle your date or hope it ends with beach sex?

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

I was in a bikini by the poolside when I was asked to go out on a date.  It didn't make any difference that the first date was at the beach.

Paige90 · Answer

Yes it is! I have even been on a first date with a guy to a nude beach!

Evie_Rose91608 · Answer

it depends on you. if you want to go and he does, yes. about the bikini, if you feel comfortable with your body go ahead. if not I recommend a one-piece suit

Sirenboobzilla · Answer

Sounds like a nice, fun time. Get to get sun, play in the water, go for walks, bring food and have a picnick right there.

weysally · Answer

well it can certainly help show off your aspects, you both would sort of know what their bodies were almost like,

AydenHazor · Answer

The beach is an optimal first date option, it's fun, public and gives you time and space to get to know each other. Much better than the movies where you sit for a couple hours with no communication between you

RavVid · Answer

I think we expect girls to wear swim wear to a beach so thats fine. So are beach walks and playing in the water

slatyb · Answer

It depends on whether you know your date. For a first meeting, you want to schedule something that can end quickly.

HaveNoName · Answer

If it happens by chance, be it. But not as good idea to plan it so. Do you really want to meet someone on a first intro half naked?

matty6500 · Answer

It could work as a first date, but I think it would be better as a second or third date. The first date I would rather focus more on just getting to know them. But it depends also how well I knew them before dating.

Bricealan · Answer

Probably so, since you have to TALK instead of sitting in a SHOW and not talking.

petitedollbabee · Answer

I personally wouldn’t want to go for a first date. Maybe a third.

IveGotNoName · Answer

Not for me. I would feel uncomfortable. But if both people feel comfortable with it, sure, of course

Passing_by · Answer

It's a good place to roam about and talk stuff but if you plan to involve in some activity there, then it should better be a second or third date or something further.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

I think swimming might be a bit much unless you already know each other but beach picnic is fine.

Friendlybro79 · Answer

I think it's a fun idea. If you don't know him well I'd stay in a public area where there are other people around. Good luck and have fun!

Anonymous · Answer

I really love this date idea Even for first date. I have invited girls to the beach but only 2 times only coworker girls came with me to the beach. The others preferred to sit at home on Instagram.

Dav1dTh0ma389 · Answer

It's only good, if he wants to, too. Otherwise, you might have a disgruntled date. Question is, is that all you'll ever want to do, as I think you do, knowing you

JaydenKays · Answer

I think it’s we’re someone can be real with you  And some can have an open mind to talk to you about anything , I think some one is not limited to do or say anything at the beach.

alcorriher · Answer

yes, but maybe a walk on a pier or at dinner somewhat near the beach.

Surely · Answer

Wear regular street clothing over your bikini and see how things play out when you get to the beach. Then decide.

Iron_Man · Answer

It’s a nice beach, but most people don’t go swimming on the first date they go out to eat and talk

KostasKouvalis · Answer

Yeah, but good luck finding one in a mountainous landlocked country

Dav1dTh0ma3 · Answer

You'd need a guy who similarly enjoys it. If he doesn't, it may not be a good idea.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Yes, absolutely it is. You just both can wear shorts and t-shirt and enjoy the beach which I love too.

nawtee_me · Answer

I would go to the beach with you…. It would be a good place for a first date. Pack a picnic lunch too.

Z1pTD · Answer

If you already know him pretty well than yesh it could be great, otherwise it could seem like you aren't looking for a setious relationship

standardguy · Answer

I think if you go to the beach the guy will be attracted too much in your beautiful body and forgets to know your heart

Anonymous · Answer

I live by the beach so I have been on dates in a bikini.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Probably not a first date, but I live near the shore so eventually.

Pudsmucker · Answer

Beaches are a good place to go on dates. Go out and enjoy yourself. Fun and surf

harrison102 · Answer

First date or a date at the beach when you know the guy?

msc545 · Answer

Maybe. A picnic or dinner at the beach is always good.

Jerre · Answer

I love going to the beach, especially on a 1st date. Allows me to see more of the girl

Anonymous · Answer

That sounds really fun. It doesn't have to be sexual. It's just having fun at the beach.

Anonymous · Answer

I had few beach dates it's good fun... Because once you trigger than you just have to remove her lingerie 😊

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Yes I had my first date on the beach it wad one of the best date I've ever been on

QuietRunner · Answer

it is a good first date choice. Long walks, sunsets, can be romantic

Anonymous · Answer

Nope. Even if you just want to hookup; beach and ocean sex isn't good for your vagina.

SassyAussieAddy · Answer

Seems like a fun time!

Summeroflove · Answer

It’s a great idea

Nikki1989 · Answer

It is a great way to spend a first date.

CoolCatMar1 · Answer

Of course. It's all sunny and beautiful

exitseven · Answer

I had many a date at the Beach.

Drachen · Answer

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GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Good Idea

Dnice1 · Answer

Yeah I think it would a fun first date

Kristenxoxo · Answer

I would say so, nothing wrong with that.

collie22 · Answer

I like swimming so yeah

Libarena · Answer

Yeah. Not bad.

WhitneySnow · Answer

Definitely

Danny_dan92 · Answer

It can be

clampfan101 · Answer

I’d love that.

Cheerfull009 · Answer

Good idea

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