Is/Was she playing with me?

[JololoShadow]

I went out with this girl 1 time, we made out have a lot of fun. After that i went away for almost a month and we keept chatting. She said she wanted to meet with me multiple times. That wanted to see me when i come back and now that i'm back in the same town. When i try to set up a date she says she dosn't know or maybe, or she'll tell me if she's avaible to go latter, the last time she told she could but that she'll have to leave early from (5pm to 9pm) basically playing hard to get or treating my like an option. It hurts couse i actually believed she wanted to see me back, but now it seems like she dosn't want to make an effort or she justs wants me as an last minute option. I'm sad please help

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Also it would really help if you could tell me what to do in this situation

[Guy13]

She decided, probably before you left, to look for a replacement man. She’s got better options in her mind was determined after your meeting.

The only chance you have is to start dating, her find out, she try to get your attention, and hoe herself back into your life.

[OlderAndWiser]

She found somebody else while you were gone.

[OlderAndWiser]

No future with her. Keep looking for someone else.

[JololoShadow]

thanks for replying bro, that sound about right :(

[OlderAndWiser]

Good luck, dude!

[SexyRedd1966]

Sounds like she uses you as a last resort or she has someone else already... who plans a date from 5:00 to 9:00, she obviously had somewhere else to go

[Anonymous]

It sounds like you might have blown your chance with her. Get over it.

[JololoShadow]

Yeah i just don't know how! I felt we were good and then is like she changed from wanting to see me to not. I only talked to her nothing weird short chatts. I don't know where i messed it up

[Iron_Man]

I have a serious conversation with her