If a man refuses to kiss you or sleep with you, is he always uninterested in you?

[KathrynTaylor]

Or could he also reject you because he’s scared?

[Massageman]

Too many women probably assume that due to expected cultural "norms". My younger daughter and her fiancé made it a specific point that their first kiss would be at the altar. Holding hands, a little back- no problem. But their first kiss was after they said "I do".

[Massageman]

Thanks for the MHO.

[MrCommodore]

Maybe, but its difficult to really know, there could be so many factors in each case.

[Anonymous]

Men that don't kiss or sleep with a woman because they're "scared"... That can't be real.

[KathrynTaylor]

I have no idea whether or not it can be.

[Opinion Owner]

There may be other reasons aside from being uninterested, but being scared isn't one of them.

[KathrynTaylor]

What others are there?

[Opinion Owner]

He's seeing someone else. He has ED. He's on antidepressants that impact his sex drive.

I'm grasping at straws. Only one way to know for sure. Ask him!

[AngryCarl2]

Probably. Or maybe you're just going too fast for him. Have you wined and dined him?

[KathrynTaylor]

I was asking in general. With one I’m sure he wasn’t interested. The other I’m not sure. But it doesn’t matter anymore.

[CountryWanderer]

It could be either. Maybe he's setting boundaries and isn't ready for that intimacy yet. I'd just ask him.

[driven159]

Yes, not sure of himself needs a woman that is patient.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Not necessarily it might mean things are just moving to fast for him

[Ms_Facesitter]

Maybe you move too quick?

[KathrynTaylor]

I’m not sure. I asked one after I’d known him 4 months. Another I’d known 8 years and he gave mixed messages but agreed that I was firmly in the friend zone.

[LiamSawyer]

He might just be super shy.

[Anonymous]

Move on, you have been friend zoned.

[KathrynTaylor]

It hasn’t happened for several years, but it happened with a few men ages ago.

[Drachen]

Lmao no. 🤣🤣🤣

[Drachen]

Of course not because he's afraid.

[Jennz6]

Scared of you

[CuriousMufuxka]

Well there hasn't been many major game release titles lately.. And he can't sleep because you're staring through his window.. I say no way!

[KathrynTaylor]

I’ve never had to stalk anyone to find a partner. I asked two out. They said no. I left them be.

[CuriousMufuxka]

So you asked this based on others reactions? Kool!

[KathrynTaylor]

I asked out of curiousity.

[CuriousMufuxka]

Yeah, my bad. To read others actions!

[misogynistic_pig]

Yes.