My sister who's 14 got a secret boyfriend, what do I do?

[Anonymous]

I opened her messenger account and found out she got a boyfriend. They're talking about kissing and hugging and mild dirty stuff. I can't say she can't have a boyfriend bc I know it's fun having a boy around but she's a perfect girl; pretty, intelligent, great body super big boobs even at 14. And I don't think just any boy deserves her. That fucking boy she's dating is so damnnn can't say it he's probably a playboy at his age!!! With a lot of chicks commenting his picture!!! Here's a pic of him

[Weapon77]

That's tough since dating is fine at her age, but sex is not a good idea. So if you are wanting to try to prevent her from making some decisions she'll regret or being used for sex by the boy, I suggest having a take with her and sharing your wisdom as the older sister. You don't have to tell her that you know or anything, but you can't approach it like you know she's getting older... etc. And if you absolutrly need to to protect her, tell your parents. She might hate you now, but she'll thank you when she's like 20 for always watching out for her.

[OfMiceandMen]

If she's keeping it a secret, you should respect that. I always put the shoe on the other foot... would you want her to tell you she was poking around in your messages and found you had a secret boyfriend? I imagine you would be none to impressed with her.

Sometimes, you have to keep things to yourself when it comes to other people's relationships. If things don't go well that is something she needs to experience and learn from.

[Anonymous]

okay 1) don't post a picture of another person without their consent especially if it's someone underage and 2) you really can't stop a teenager from doing what they want, my younger sister was also hanging around boys and had lots of boyfriend drama and she eventually stopped telling me things because i kept telling her off so definitely don't do that, just be there for your sister and make sure she's being safe

[Jaylenn]

Not sure where that pic came from... however your sister who is 14 regardless of boobs etc.. is her business, you can only give her good advice to wait for sex.. now if you're hoping to get rid of him so you can date her that's a totally different Jerry Springer episode

[OlderAndWiser]

Are you trying to protect her or are you jealous?

[Anonymous]

So you’re him and fishing for compliments or to find out if you’re hot enough to be deserving of a hot girl with big boobs. That’s embarrassing and pathetic. Advice for the future, nobody talks about their sister this way (the body and boob thing). And she’s an underaged child, and it looks like you are too, so just stop.

[Asker]

Lmaoooo

[CoolCatMar1]

Hahahh

[CoolCatMar1]

This is such a roast

[Venting101]

Why are you posting his photo, that's messed up and it's even more messed up you are saying those things about an under-age kid. It's even more messed up that you felt it was okay to invade her privacy by accessing her messenger.

[Asker]

I know but she's going out at night all the timr. So I got suspicious and opened her messenger to see if she's got a boyfriend. And she really have and I don't like to stop her from getting a boyfriend but someone who's like that shouldn't be her boyfriend

[dustybiker]

Should you be posting a pic of someone like this? Does it make you better? Talk to your sister about it.

[Asker]

I can't talk to her about it because she already told me she got no boyfriend

[dustybiker]

Act the older sister. Admit you broke her privacy and found this on her phone. Or don’t say anything.

[Asker]

but i don't want her to experience being cheated on. That guy got so many chicks commenting on his pic. I think she only likes him because he's aggressive type.

[Venting101]

@Asker just because someone has a lot of girls commenting on his photo doesn't mean he is some type of playboy. You are also just assuming and jumping to the conclusion he will cheat when you know absolutely nothing about him. STOP invading your sister's privacy, keep doing it and you may end up pushing your sister away to the point not only will she never trust you but she may refuse to even talk to you. I'd be pretty disgusted and angry if my sibling was out there making post like this and posting someone's photos without their knowledge. It's pretty disgusting and wrong.

[dustybiker]

@Venting101 👍🏻

[SnowedIn]

Say nothing. You're causing drama and problems where you don't need to be.

Or what @dustybiker said.

But, ZERO good will come from this. Not one bit. At best you will alienate your sister for life.

[Razp_Sorbet]

1. Who cares.
2. it's incredibly inappropriate to be posting a photo of a child without their permission on the internet.
3. Grow the fuck up.

[Sevenpointfive]

while it's a brother's duty to protect his sisters, you can't stop them from being sluts. do what you can and when it is out of your hands admit your failure

[RavVid]

Hmmh. Well you could blow the whistle on her with your parents Probably what ever you say or they say isn't going to stop her.

Possibly all you can aim for is to prevent her getting pregnant.

[lalaloveee]

My rating for the kid: 6/10

My rating for the his story he made up to ask about himself: 1/10

[JustinTheGreat]

lol teenagers are gonna date. It’s probably just gonna be a short high school fling anyways. As long as she’s being safe and smart, she’ll be fine

[slatyb]

What do you do? Nothing. You might ask her if she's planning on becoming sexually active. Then help her get birth control and condoms.

[JamesDiaz11]

What's wrong with his face? that elicited a "damn" out of you? lol

[Twalli]

Why is she keeping him a secret from you? That should be the biggest concern. Also, just because a lot of girls may be interested in him doesn't mean he's not loyal to her.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Tell her “if you get caught you better take the heat, and if you can’t take the heat then stay out of the oven, and if you’re too horny for the oven then at least turn it into a Husbando”

[Anonymous]

Mind your own business. That's what kids her age are supposed to be doing. Stay out of her phone, do you want somebody going through yours?

[Rockstarrrrr]

Lmao 😂😂... This is so poorly done it becomes good 😆... Ah, to be 14 again... Good times

[In_Trance]

It's not a secret if you know about it

[Asker]

Everyone knows except us. Her classmates knows

[In_Trance]

See my first response

[Anonymous]

What is mildly dirty stuff?

[msc545]

Ignore it - not your business.

[nawtee_me]

sounds like you want her too...

[Anonymous]

The picture wasn't needed.

[Jamie05rhs]

Kick his ass.

[Luckycharms12]

So what

[Anonymous]

Tell your parents.