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I don't want any kids. I'm not doing that every other weekend share the kids bs when we break up because she doesn't love me anymore.11
I am sure now a days there is plenty of guys that don't want kids. My brother and I we were forced to take care of our younger siblings he is 27 And he has no desire to have kids. I don't blame him we were kids taking care of kids which it should had been my mom's responsibility since she is a crazy Catholic freak who thinks God hates birth control. My mom had total of 9 kids. Let's just say my siblings and I raised similar like the Duggars. Lol10
Its harder to find a man who wants kids, especially one who will want them in his 20s. You’re in luck because it seems like most men dont want them at all these days162
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Yes it is very hard to find such a man who has not been married. The drive for seed and extension of Family line is insurmountable for most guys.6
At age 24, you should be able to find plenty of single guys & married guys who want to have sex with a young gal who doesn't want to have kids. Finding somebody to marry who doesn't want kids will be more difficult. If you don't want kids, then there really isn't much reason to get married to a guy. You can love each other for decades without the weight of the legal system bearing down upon you. If things eventually don't work out, you can give each other a hug and wish each other the best in their future. That's not how marriages end (with attorneys fighting each other for every last dollar of marital assets).
You'll always have two other options that won't lead to any kids and will prevent you from "ending up alone":
1- Fall in love with a lesbian or
2- Fall in love with a few cats. Many elderly women are on this path.
Good luck. You might change your mind over the next 5 or 6 years. Above all, if you know in your heart you would be a lousy mother, then don't have any kids.5
I don't think it would be too hard, but you have to be pretty clear-cut about that stuff very early on, and you have to be prepared for the possibility that people change over time.
Some people, maybe even a lot or most people, need to find the right person to want to have kids. I know that the girl I'm dating now wasn't sure if she wanted kids before, but as soon as she met me, her tune totally changed and you'd think being a mom was her greatest ambition in life.
I'm not particularly inspired one way or the other to have kids, and the fact she wasn't too inspired either was a major point of attraction for me. Now that her attitude has changed, I've needed to rethink how I feel about having kids. I'm still not totally sold on the idea, but I know that if she is enthusiastic about it; I'll do everything in my power to love and support her and the kids if/when the time comes.0
Nope, there are likely some guys out there that don't want to bring kids into this world. It may take you a little while to find em.0
Your friends are just sheeps. There's more and more people that do not want kids. I am 1 of them. I know other guys my age no kids. I find it more rare to find women who don't want kids. I've even spoken 3 women that didn't want kids , yet 1 had 2 kids now and other one just got pregnant... Now at my age, there only single moms. :(10
You don't you want kids? Ahh, that's a shame; you looked drop-dead beautiful, Bonnie. I would have fancied myself a woman like you.
Well, on to the next one.11
But you'll attract 101 fuckboys who want to "pump and dump," and leave you unhappy, before you come across one.
Mainly as "no kids" means you're either insufferable, an attention whore, genetically flawed or have family/personal issues.0
I mean if you want to find a guy who did Jackass stunts and he says, "hey sweetheart, I have to confess something to you. I did a ton of nut shot videos with the fellas back in my high school days". That seems fairly self-explanatory.0
It can be. I don't and made sure I couldn't. Your best bet may be to look for a guy who is indifferent about having them. The way I see it is, if my girlfriend and I decide we want kids later we can try adopting. Obviously we'll be married before then.0
Popular to what you may think there are a lot of guys who don’t want kids, and while they may not be your perfectly handsome they may just be your average joe, but there are more than you think that are single and have no kids.0
There’s plenty of guys who don’t want kids. My boyfriend doesn’t and neither do I10
No I think there are still plenty of guys who don’t want kids.10
Probably. Seems like most people desire to make their lives 100x harder than need be. I have step children, but none of my own and don’t want any.20
It'll surely limit your options, but there are plenty of men who don't want kids10
We exist. We just don't care for the drama when we mention it so we normally dont.12
It depends on where you live. You could probably find a liberal guy on the East Coast who wouldn't want kids in order to "fight climate change." Regardless, most manly men want legacy, and that includes children. You may be damaged to the point where an actually masculine man is unappealing to you, but any guy that is of a demeanor that normal women find attractive would want kids.46
Im 31 and don't want kids, never have never will. But I had no luck finding a guy who doesn't want kids.10
Well I don't know if I'm ugly or not but I definitely don't want kids. Pretty sure there's quite a few guys who don't kids.10
I’m curious to know why don’t you want kids. My little sister use to feel the same way, she said they’re like little drunk people lol5
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Certainly not impossible, but more difficult for sure. Especially for marriage - the laws are so one-sided that most men don't have a good reason to risk so much unless they want kids.
I would say that you need to make this known to any man you are considering to date, and to be prepared for them to say that you aren't compatible with their long-term goals. You WILL find guys who don't want kids but want a serious, committed relationship, but maybe not marriage, or maybe only with a prenuptial agreement, so if he knows that you would be okay with that, you'll have an easier time.
Being honest from the beginning is the most important thing.
Good summary. A girl clutching a prenup could be far more attractive.
In my jurisprudence if you weren't married you weren't married so it was reasonably safe to form a long term relationship. However 'leave was granted' to apply to family courts to defacto couples... defacto wives in practice No legislation that was debated but simply a judge's common law decision.
Immediately it was highly unsafe to be in long term relationships. If the girl brought in a lot less assets then you were almost certain to lose yours.
Prenups are a little unsafe to rely on because if a guy says If you sign this prenup I will marry you then there is an element of duress and a court may not uphold it.
@RavVid All true - but it's still better than going in blind, as most men do.
Completely agreed - no argument at all but perhaps we should stop proposing and it should more like "oh you want us to get married? I'm open to that as I love you. WHAT PRENUP are you proposing"
I'm laughing quietly to myself...