I want to marry someone who does not want children, but why do I always come across men who want children?

[BestWoman]

[BeMuse]

Why do you want to marry them? Just date someone for life that doesn't want kids and your problem is solved... The entire premise behind marriage is to bind a men and women together to guarantee that a man's children were truly his biological heirs, thus able to inherit his family's wealth and titles. The institution is all cluster fucked today anyway, with laws that favor giving the children to women on divorce, and somehow the wife steals half his wealth while he's alive and deprives his biological heirs of their inheritance so that she can live frivolously at her children's expense.

[BestWoman]

The woman gets pregnant and raises her in pain. She gives her own milk to baby, takes care of her, what is the result? The woman's body both deteriorates and remains in pain

[BeMuse]

So you're of the opinion, that women should take from men that are trying to give to their children a better life than they had... Why would anyone want to marry you? You're a user.

[BestWoman]

I'm not i don't want to baby

[BeMuse]

In life both men and women sacrifice for the next generation to carry on life. It's a mutual effort... You're advertising yourself is a dead end that not only cancels out the continuation of life, but robs resources from a man that would spend time with you. There is nothing appealing about that.

[BeMuse]

That fine... Go die alone... There is no reason to try and drag others down with you.

[BestWoman]

I do not like children, and a child spoils a woman's body. It's like a virus anyway a baby

[BeMuse]

So then deal with the consequences of that choice. Just don't expect people to follow you.

[Fireguy17]

Probably men like that are in the minority, but there are many men out there that do not have that drive to have kids.
I had the opposite problem, I couldn't have kids, so fins a women that doesn't want to have kids is not easy, so for a long time I st gave up looking, and just had casual relationships, or hookups.
Once I got older it was much easier because most women already had kids, many had their tubes tied and didn't want more, or were empty nesters.
Then it was no longer an issue.
I was fine with it, ended up doing a lot of other things, so it worked out well in the end.
Maybe look on some of the better dating sites, not the hook up sites, and put it in your profile.
Like Eharmony, it's just lunch etc, whatever is in your area.
The vast majority of those people on those sites are looking for a relationship, not a hookup, but there are a few. So it might be a good place to look.

[Aurora1010]

Because most people do want children at some point. Sometimes even the people who don't like or care for it at first, after they get a little older and find a stable relationship they start wanting to form a family.

[BestWoman]

The woman gets pregnant and raises her in pain. She gives her own milk to baby, takes care of her, what is the result? The woman's body both deteriorates and remains in pain

[Aurora1010]

I don't really care about having kids or not myself, but just saying that it may be complicated for you to find someone that won't ever want kids even if they say they don't at first.
You need to find someone who is really as determined about not having them as you are.

[bamesjond0069]

Because you do not have a coherent view of dating and the sexes. Men who are generally more masculine and traditional in some way generally view having children as the logical step in a relationship. Whereas men who do not believe in traditions in relationships often embracing femininity and gender non conforming ideas would be more open to non conforming ideas when it comes to what a relationship is ie it doesn't need children.

Yet here you are liking these more traditional minded men but not accepting that they come with traditional values. Id suggest a man with a mohawk who cross dresses on occasions and who does the laundry but expects you to change the oil on the cars. He will be more likely to not want children. Good luck.

[Jasooty]

If you’re concerned about your body (and that’s your only reason for not wanting kids), consider adoption

[BestWoman]

İ don't like kids

[Crankor]

It happens. I wonder if they really know what kind if relationship/life that entails. wouldn't surprise me if its just to "carry on their line" even if they never really consider the responsibility and life changes. Ah well.

[dreamsofcum]

Because everyone in his family has been driving that idea through his head for last 30 years And still reminds abor Everyttime one of his friends get married or has a kid

[rabbitzzz]

You need to find young man. 18 something. What else. Probably someone who doesn't want to be with you forever.

[exitseven]

I am sure there are guys out there that do not want kids. You have to keep looking.

[dolemite89]

i don’t want kids either and i feel ur pain, it gets difficult to find women to date as u get older that don’t want oops babies 😂

[Anonymous]

Same reason I always come across women who have dogs; when I am afraid of dogs.

[Ironic_Method]

I don't want kids... but I'm already married.

[Jamie05rhs]

I do not need any children.

[Hotboy_booblover]

Which country are u from?

[BestWoman]

Turkey

[Hotboy_booblover]

Ok.. are u looking for casual sex?

[BestWoman]

Nope

[Hotboy_booblover]

Ok i doubt anyone with serious commitments won't want offspring

[BestWoman]

Can you explain

[Hotboy_booblover]

Well thats how it is.. there cud b exceptions.. I m not aware

[Jmmmfi4]

I don't want kids... marry me lol

[samysyed]

You are more conscious of your body then

[Anonymous]

Why you don't want children?