Is a 7 year age gap with dating a big deal?

[Anonymous]

[Guy13]

This is age and life experience determined. The biggest factor being having been in the working world struggled, procured own living space, and achieved independence. Outside of that then I do not need a child to raise. Whatever that age is plus 12 year differential would not bother me.

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[Fireguy17]

it depends on the ages.
So by the age group that is listed if you were 18 and the other person was 11 then yes, that would be an issue. 24 & 31 not that bad.
The older you are, the less of a difference it makes.
My wife & I are 9 years apart, no problem at all.

[Asker]

How about 19 and 25?

[Fireguy17]

Anything is possible.
The one big thing is that in some states you could not legally go across a state boarder, and while he can go out to a bar, you could not.
There might be a few things like your tastes in music, the friends that you hang out with, yours, his.
He might be the oldest one, and you might be the youngest one, stuff like that.
There are plenty of things you can do together, but those are the only downsides that come to mind.

[Anonymous]

No. There was a girl on here that was 16, and he was 40ish. Since most everyone is too lazy to read past the title, they said it was illegal. She lived in South Africa, and it's legal with a note from parents, which she had.

[supercutebutt]

Yes because if you are 18, dating an 11-year-old can get u in trouble. :(

[OlderAndWiser]

If you are 20 and he is 13, it is a huge deal!

[ZackBan]

It's subjective. People grow in 7 years meaning one partner might be on a different chapter in life.
But then growth is not identical for everyone meaning a mature 20 year old would match up with a youthful 27 year old for example.

So it's only a big deal if it feels like one.

(Of course as long as both parties are legal)

[xColinx]

13 & 20, yes.

20 & 27, kinda.

30 & 37, nah.

[Anonymous]

I think it kind of depends where you're at in life. When I was younger I turned a woman down because she was 4 years. Younger than me and I felt that was too big of a gap. But the last woman there was 15 years. Between us and I didn't have a problem with it. I think as you get older age is less of a factor and life experience is more of a factor.

[inhua]

nope. once you're past the legal AOC it doesn't matter

[Anonymous]

My biggest gap was 25 years (only once but it went on for 3 months) and my normal gap is around 5 years.

[AsaKyo]

It's not ideal for me, personally but if you are okay with it, then just do it

[AsaKyo]

Unless it's an issue regarding a minor, then don't lmao

I just mean if you're both adults

[sadgirl0210]

No it ain't just as long as y'all feel connected and love etc

[OddBeMe]

Depends on the age. I always say red line for adults are teens, nmw. But 18 is adult, just don’t fall for a perv.

[LiamJHayden]

Depends. 19 and 12, yes. 55 and 48, probably not.

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Age is a number. Love is love. Numbers are usually irrational, unreal, or complex.

[Avicenna]

Not for adults, no

[Anonymous]

Depends how old the younger one is , if the younger one is in their 20s or more then no it’s no big deal

[Adam1978]

If you reached adulthood no, otherwise yes.

[Lucy68]

Depends on the age

[Iron_Man]

No not at all as long as your adults

[Asker]

What about 19 and 25

[Iron_Man]

Fine

[es20490446e]

If you are adult, it isn't.

[TheSpaceGnome]

No if both are adults.

[boobliker]

not at all if your both over 18

[zagor]

Depends on if it's 12 and 19, or 31 and 38.