Would you date someone with kids from a previous relationship?

[Anonymous]

(Individuals between the ages 25 and 35)

yes

no

[HavicZero]

There is not enough money accolades or experiences on this planet that could get me or any other sane man to date an irresponsible woman.

Thank goodness that men have woken up to understanding the complete situation of single mothers. I don't care if you get offended and I don't care how much you cry. Dating a single mother is dumb and marrying a single mother is even more stupid.

Why would a man with no children and no marriage in his past or present, take on a woman who has more problems than he does? A man does not want to take care of someone else's kid. A man also doesn't want a relationship with a woman who is already bringing more complexity into her own life.

Men don't want to know your ex men don't want to meet your ex and men don't want to be involved with your ex. And frankly why would you procreate with somebody and then not marry them? Or at least try to resolve the issues in your relationship? You aren't fooling anybody we know that these men are not abusive. But we certainly know that women are very abusive.

Was the advent of the conversation of paternity fraud being a thing women have no leg to stand on anymore. No real man will take on a woman with a child or children from other men because we don't want to pay for your mistakes. We don't want to pay for the kids that you had with other men. We want our own kids. And we know that 30% of children are being raised by a guy who is not their father but has been told that he is. And that's just the numbers we know about.

On top of that being a single mother is like having a billboard over your head that says you don't have any integrity you're incapable of being responsible and that you blame everyone else for your problems and you expect everyone else to solve your issues.

People are already having a difficult time of putting their lives together thanks to women and Republicans that why would somebody make it even more difficult for themselves?

Women need to understand what it feels like to be disrespected after all of the garbage they've put everyone through and the days of men saving women are over. Damseling which is a psychiatric term for a woman who uses the appearance of needing help as a trap, has been uncovered and men are avoiding it like neo being shot at in The matrix.

Women are not above reproach. And women deserve all of the disrespect that they are getting today. Real recognizes real. And this is coming from a person who has been falsely accused multiple times and was able to prove that these women were liars. Nobody wants to do that. Nobody wants to have their dreams changed into working with justice and law enforcement entities because of something that multiple women do which is lie.

Women created this situation. Women made this bed and now they have to lie in it and they can't handle it because women don't want to be and refuse to be accountable for their actions and deeds. And men don't care anymore. Enjoy being single because that's what you're going to be we're not paying for your mistakes anymore we don't have compassion for you because we realized it was all just a ruse so that you could get the easy life. Also it's pretty interesting that all of this came to a head when Donald Trump was president. In the majority of women put him there after screaming for decades that they wanted a female president.

We have material evidence through female social media activity that proves that women cannot be trusted and should not be trusted. I haven't seen yet any women apologizing for this behavior or trying to be responsible for this behavior. All women do is blame men for everything when yet again with material evidence we are showing that the fault of all the problems are originated from women.

[Finchie40]

Yes , considering I have kids as well, but it depends on what her intentions are , if she is just looking for a meal ticket then I won’t fall for that shit , I will be respectful and kind to her kids but if she is expecting me to take care of them she is in for a rude awakening , cuz I am not expecting her to take care of mine , I dated girls that had kids that expected me to be responsible for them asking me for money and asking me to pay for things for them, acting like I am supposed to be their step father right off the bat , I dump her ass right then and there , I am not going to be used in a relationship , Now if I see she is working her ass off to provide for her kids and see her busting her ass and I know the father is a piece of shit , then I will politely offer to help her out but if she is expecting me to take care of them she is best to find another sucker , When I date a new girl , I don’t introduce my kids to her until I feel she is he one , people don’t realize how much it effects their kids by bringing new people into their lives and then they turn around and say fuck this and leave , The kids get effected as well , I have it ease it happen so many times from other people doing that shit , so I respect when I meet a girl that won’t introduce me to her kids right away and she understands her kids are her responsibility , the same way my kids are my responsibility

[cryscrys1]

At first my reaction would say no
But as an adult already in my 30s I have been living long enough to know that life isn’t supposed to go according to how you plan it shit happens. And life is a bitch. So , I can say yes. That’s because I can also get married and have kids and thinking that will last etc etc but people change minds. I can also be a single mom just like you and her and every women who’s a single mother now.
If some days I end up having kids and being single that doesn’t mean I don’t deserve to restart and that I’m so bad no it simply means what I had before failed.
Therefore , yeah I would date someone with kids from a previous relationship.

[Anemone978]

Yeah I would.. considering most people in my age range have a kid or two lol

[AviatorTom]

I'm guessing this depends on age. In my age group, most datable women are divorced or widowed with kids, so of course we guys date a woman with kids.

Younger guys (in their 20s) have their pick of many single women without kids, and would generally choose not to date a single mom with kids.

[Guy13]

One never knows with love but I would not put it near the Likely column. Probably not.

[kramchancel]

There is this girl at work who likes me. But she has a 1 year old. And no im not going to date her or have sex with her. Im not saying this is the same for everyone with a kid but i find her constantly making wrong decisions. The last thing I want is to be responsible to someones kid

[UmbrusNightshade]

For me it really depends on several factors. I’m not experienced with dating beyond two dates and lots of rejections so for me to even consider it she’d have to have a great personality.


Things like whether she can have and wants more kids (because I’d like at least one that is my own), the ages of her children, the relationship she and the kids have or don’t have with the father and finances would play a part in whether I felt it was worth it or not.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

It would depend on why. If they're a widow, sure. But that's usually it, unless the father is a good person and does his part to take care of the kids like he's supposed to. I'd rather not take on the responsibility that someone else gave up or have to deal with an idiot that chose a deadbeat.

[TacosRAwesome]

I honestly don't know. It depends on how cool the kid is because I'm not dealing with a demon spawn that's not mine. Ill deal with a lovely kid that's not mine though.

[Fireguy17]

I have and it was fine.
As long as both parents are not locked in a life or death struggle over them, I just don't need that kind of drama in my life.

[AdithyaR]

I don't want kids of my own and I don't want the responsibility of being a parent cause I know I can't be a good one. So i wouldn't date a single parent, it wouldn't be right of me.

[Jaylenn]

I've dated a few guys who have had teenagers.

[LiamJHayden]

Maybe. I've said this before, but to me there is a huge difference between a young widow and a woman who is 25 and has four baby daddies.

[Gloree]

if it's just one kid and the ex is married. if it's many kids, count me out.

[melanieeeB]

Right now, no.

[admles]

I married one!

[TheSpaceGnome]

Nope.

[TheUniqueOne96]

Probably not.

[SnowedIn]

Yes I would.

[Anonymous]

I’m terrified the father will kill me.

[jacobsontom]

Yes why not?

[Anonymous]

Never