Do you think that if you’re average that is a bad thing?

[Still-alive]

Average in looks mainly but maybe all around you’re average. Do you see this as a bad thing?

Got the inspiration for this question from this video

Yes being average is a bad thing.

No its not a bad thing

Im average and ok with that

Im average and not ok with that

[RolandCuthbert]

I am not a fan of hers. Toxic positivity isn't a thing. We are in a forum dedicated to people who do not wish to evolve.

The only issue I have is when they whine about the consequences.

I will never stop evolving and trying to get better. But I don't think she honestly is concerned about that. It seems she is concerned about women having unrealistic standards. Men who are good at the dating game know, women often set one standard, then date another.

It is just how they roll.

[Still-alive]

Well she does come across as a pick me type going so far as to agree with the red pill types. Also even states hypergamy is a thing which i have mixed opinions on. But sometimes she says good things i agree with. Better than others i have seen

[OddBeMe]

@RolandCuthbert Very agreed. I thought I got into one of her vids, but it turned into incel self help that would only increase their learned helplessness by blaming other people.

[RolandCuthbert]

@OddBeMe But that is a profitable business. Incels are being radicalized and taken advantage of. Because for them people who validate their insanity are their friends.

[OddBeMe]

Yes! That’s what right wingers don’t get. They fall for a pretty chick who claims to hate feminism. But fail to see how easy that money is. Lol

[RolandCuthbert]

@OddBeMe I am really considering becoming a grifter for a living. Why should I work and be stressed out all day long when all I would have to do is tell a bunch of incels what they want to hear and watch the money roll in?

[Still-alive]

Be sure to snicker or laugh every now and then at those incels in your videos.

[OddBeMe]

@RolandCuthbert If you’re really black (lol) you could make a fortune pretending to be Trumpian. A fortune.

[loveslongnails]

Sticking solely to your question, being average is nothing to be ashamed of nor is it "bad". As to that video, it's a very long-winded way of saying "keep your expectations within reason and understand the percentages". It's a 14 minute video with about 4 minutes worth of usable info, in my opinion. :)

[PBandJ_Nerd]

Being average looking doesn't seem to indicate whether or not a person is attractive. I think I'm average looking, but I'm always told I'm cute, so take what you want from that. I guess in the end whether I'm attractive or not all depends on the person looking at me.

[Paul_in_Indy]

If you’re the jam jar in your pic, then, yes, you are adorable.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

@Paul_in_Indy Yeah. I love strawberry jam, so I'd say it is me.

[LovingJo]

Who the fuck constitutes what is "average" and what isn't?
Why must anyone have to look at themselves as being so?
This is why society today is so judgmental, always wanting to put labels on everything!! 🤦🏻‍♀️

[loveslongnails]

Some things are quantifiable, so it's easy to say what an average is, like height, weight, income, etc. Personality traits or looks however, are a very different thing for the most part. Even though there have been studies that prove that most people find symmetry to be the greatest attraction when it comes to looks, everyone still thinks of beauty in their own way.

[LovingJo]

Thanks for the MHO 😘

[Sunssong]

Yes because it means... You don't think for yourself. Everyone is conditioned to have the same or similar paradigm which is most people get the same or similar results in life... That means only a few are thinking for themselves.

Nothing is good or bad only your thinking makes it so but for me average is bad. It shows, at least in todays world, you are living below your potential.

[Étoile9]

Average physically it depends, I don't want someone too plain. Average mentally no. I don't want a dull person. I am kind of eccentric so I appreciate people that stand out, I was not born for normal. That's probably also why I'm alone.

[petitedollbabee]

Better to be average than bad. I’m okay with being average.

[Still-alive]

You seem better than average to me tho ;)

[ChillaxingLove]

What exactly is average? You’re either ugly to someone or you look good. Then at the same time what you think is ugly someone will say they look great. I think being called average is worst than being called ugly, even though it doesn’t exist

[inhua]

no it shouldn't be a bad thing but it's seen as a bad thing. everybody wants to be the hero of the movie. who wants to be background character these days?

[MidnightOwl57]

in my opinion that's a subjective term. What's average for one person, might be another man's treasure 🤷‍♂️

[grierwrange]

No one wants to be average but most people are

[Still-alive]

so is this bad if you are average?

[WellGreetingsISay]

It's not bad being average. I've been told I'm better than average looking, but to be honest it can be annoying.

[menina]

Depends on how you see yourself. Some people are ok with being average while others aren't.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

I'm below average and know it. If I weren't, I would have had a relationship by now. It's my state of being and no amount of work will change that.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I'm average and ok with that

[LiamJHayden]

I'm definitely average in looks. Outside of looks, I'm above average in some areas, below average in others. I'm happy.

[douride2]

Most people are only at the best average. So I'm ok with being like most average.

[OddBeMe]

If average is bad, then what’s the middle ground? Less bad than bad?

Average is majority,

[Dinosaursandanime65]

That’s horrible

[Onedayprobably]

When I look at the TV and see what people do, I feel like being average is a bad thing lol

[Guardian45]

Being average is NOT a bad thing, but I'm NOT.

[Nikki1989]

No, most people are average.

[serious]

No, it is not a bad thing at all.

[SnowedIn]

I'm average and I'm okay with it.

[llorando]

Can't say that I do.