How to tell a guy is not dating material?

[Anonymous]

[BigWhiteWolf87]

1) You meet him at a bar or club. He is most certainly NOT dating material. The typical guy & gal at a bar or club is only after cheap causal sex & NOT WORTH dating.

2) He acts like a douchebag. Plays with your emotions, diminishes / insults others to make himself seem better. He is most certainly NOT dating material (he's a loser).

3) If he's often talks about sex or his conversation is sexually charged. He's NOT dating material. He's after sex & once he gets what he wants he'll usually "disappear".

4) If he doesn't show much or any interest in learning about you. He's NOT dating material. He's after sex & once he gets what he wants he'll usually "disappear".

5) No effort to contact you first, only responds to your message. He's NOT dating material. A person that can't take 5 seconds to text good morning isn't going to invest.

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Those are the top 5 hints, there's more. But that's the most obvious.

[BJP21]

Meet you at the Starbucks in 10.

[BigWhiteWolf87]

@BJP21 Ha sure

[Anonymous]

He always insults you, disrespects you, treats you like shit

[Opinion Owner]

Flirts with all/ many girls. Makes you feel less before other girl/ girls

[es20490446e]

There's no such thing as being dating material. There's just people that are usually more liked, and people that are less frequently liked.

But the thing is that someone who most wouldn't like to date, I could find them quite nice to date. Just because of my preferences being different.

For example I like women to have all their natural hair grown. But most people disgust that.

[OlderAndWiser]

Depends on what your goal is in dating. Are you looking for someone to marry and be the father of your future children, or are you looking for someone for casual dating and companionship without long term commitment?

[Anonymous]

I can guarantee that if a guy has a trait that most females find attractive, he isn’t dating material.

The player type
the frat douchebag type
the wannabe thug type
the loud, obnoxious type
the bully/asshole type
if he has lots of female attention

almost any guy under 25 is not mature enough to be dateable.

Gamers, drug users, partiers.

[FilmGuy93]

This is some top tier advice for everyone, man or woman. If you want to know whether someone is dating material; look at who their friends are.

[serious]

There are plenty of ways to tell. It is all about how he treats you and whether he has morals, values or not.

[Truthatanycost]

Simple. Most of the entire collective aren't suitable dating material so you can only find suitable ones through God's assistance.

[LiamJHayden]

His focus is physical rather than getting to know you as a person.

[BJP21]

Ill agree with @BigWhiteWolf87 most of these along with a sex driven ego.

[Wise4myage]

You need to go on at least a few dates to figure this out, but how he treats you is very important.

[Slay256]

if his pockets ain’t full with money. Also if he treats you like shit.

[bigboy133]

If he fucks weirdly. If he fucks weirdly like he is chomping a macdonalds meal then it is not worth it

[Razp_Sorbet]

You're having to ask this question

[In_Trance]

You say you're not interested

[Anonymous]

Common sense.

[Anonymous]

how to tell a girl is not dating material?

[exitseven]

Prison tattoos.