Are most of the men on dating sites, either married, fake or after a shag?

[Anonymous]

I’ve found this increasingly. Then some guy who kept going back and forth about whether or not he should go out with me. I thought for fucks sake. Grow some balls!

[slatyb]

It doesn't matter. You aren't going to date most of them. What is important? That's the beer some men you would be happy to meet. I was on match my fur a while. Most of the women weren't interesting. But I met a few and that were. It only takes one.

[ShiftingMonke]

I'm married, but I'm not here to cheat, I'm actually trying to give advice.

I will say that every man on a dating app is on there for a reason; the struggle is figuring out what that reason is.

As for the guy waffling, maybe you're intimidating?

[Asker]

How am I intimidating? I’m just strong, opinionated and pretty (but certainly not gorgeous).

[ShiftingMonke]

Haha well beauty is in the eye of the beholder, to some you may be cold porridge, to others you may be damn near unapproachable. Based by your tone of the question, you seem outspoken and unafraid to speak your mind, far from meek or demure. I'm not saying that's a bad thing, not by a long shot, but some dudes are terrified of a woman with a spine.

[Asker]

Good point. I never saw it that way.

[ShiftingMonke]

That's what I'm here for. Lol

[Anemone978]

After a shag... don't bother they will lie to try to get in your pants..
I had a guy tell me he needs to have sex with me to see if we are compatible so he can date me lol

[NostalgiaSenpi]

I was interested in love, but after so many fake profiles, bots, polyamory, thinly veiled cam sites and adult services, inactivity, and unresponsive people, I gave up on online dating.

[ThomasDavid1989]

Because they're scams

[Anonymous]

Yes.