I hurted him. He hurted me back. I realised I hurted him more than he deserve Now I can't apologize to him as he's following no contact. What do I do?

[Anonymous]

[OlderAndWiser]

1. Work on improving your English.
2. Learn a lesson from this experience. You don't get a second chance to do it right the first time.

[Asker]

The sentence formation in the question was not correct, I know it because I made sentences as to fit them in the question as it's exceeding the word limit. You would have understood it if you had some knowledge about the word limit. Thanks for your unnecessary suggestions

[OlderAndWiser]

Try again. "Hurted" is not a real word.

[Asker]

The word hurted is used in exceptional case in ancient time. Check Google

[Asker]

*exceptional cases

[OlderAndWiser]

We are not living in ancient times.

[Asker]

But Wikipedia's dictionary still mentions that word as the most used word till mid 1900-2000

[OlderAndWiser]

Okay. Continue to sound lliterate. IDGAF.

[Asker]

Do you mean that people who used that word in your generation are illiterates? I guess you were from mid 1900-2000 generation

[Asker]

I know that present generation English have been changed and we use the word "hurt" for present, past and future. But what about mid 1900-2000 generation people? They shouldn't be wrong either

[OlderAndWiser]

"Hurted" has not been used as proper English since the late 1800's. If you are 140 years old, I will cut you some slack on this.

[slatyb]

Get some therapy so you don't spend the rest of your life playing games that no one can win.

[Pacquet]

What would the most ideal situation be for you?

[Asker]

To speak with him but he is following no contact rule and I can't speak to him for that reason

[Pacquet]

But why do you want to speak to with him? Is it to get back with him? Is it to apologize? If it’s just to know he’s okay then just assume he will be, time heals all wounds.

[Asker]

To get back with him by apologising

[Anonymous]

Move on with your life.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Move on.

[Anonymous]

I think just end it

[Asker]

Is ending it worth it without apologising when I need to apologise?

[Opinion Owner]

You can if you want
If u dont want just ghost him