Do petite plus size girls like being called cute?

[TheMadMothra]

I’m attracted to petite plus size girls because I think they are extremely adorable. I love how woman are sensitive and I think this look embodies that the best. Lots of women today want to look super hot and extravagant, which chases me away and doesn’t show any of the vulnerability that I love so much in women. That being said, how do girls like this like to be treated? Does being called cute annoy them? Do they typically have low self-esteem or high self-esteem? Do you think I would have a chance with someone like this?

[PrettyPriya]

What is "petite" plus size girls? That phrase seems completely contradicting. A girl that is overweight is not petite. You have so many questions within your question. I can address them separately.

So, let's get to the main thing, which is do girls like being called cute. Yes. Doesn't matter your size, girls like compliments. That is just a given. You seem to have a thing for girls of a certain size.

How do girls like to be treated? If you cannot answer this, you should not be pursuing girls. If you don't understand how we like to be treated, you are not ready for a relationship. I can tell you how I like to be treated, but I will likely run out of space since the number of words allowed in a reply are limited. Just treat them with the same respect and kindness that you would treat anyone with.

How does self esteem relate to body size? While they might have lower self esteem for being out of shape, I don't think you can group all girls' self esteem based on body type. Maybe some are upset that they are not in better shape. Others may embrace it. You cannot put a blanket statement that would cover all girls.

[TheMadMothra]

I just heard that petite plus size was the term for the girl in the picture, someone who's short and a little overweight. And I know that women like to be respected and treated like equals. When I asked how they liked to be treated I was asking specifically how the type in the picture likes to be treated pertaining to their appearance. (Like if it’s offensive to mention if they’re short or offense to mention their weight) I just wanted to know more about the type of girl in the picture, because I had a crush on someone for almost a year who looked like that, and I only got to say like 2 sentences to her, so I don’t know much about that type. But I wasn’t fully thinking when I made this post, and I should realize that looks are completely separate from personality. Like I said I just wanted to know more, and I don’t deem myself ready for dating at all. I’m only 17.

[Ygritte_snow]

I’d say any girl would like being complimented. Though “cute” can be a bit childish. I’d go for “beautiful”, “gorgeous”, “stunning” or a mix of all of them :)

[Anonymous]

Ohh, short and fat. I might be your type lol

[TheMadMothra]

Nice to know there’s people out there like you!

[Babygirl_S]

I thought petite meant thin and short.

[Anonymous]

You mean short, not petite?

[TheMadMothra]

I was trying to be as inoffensive as possible, I don’t know if they like being called short.