My boyfriend and I live in a small town where there isn't much to do. When I was younger there was plenty to do but so many stores are closing down. There's nothing much to do anymore so when im off i just stay in and watch movies. When some of my family is off we all go out to restaurants. When im off work for like a week or take off from work i go out of town or on a vacation. I have been to 9 states my whole life. My boyfriend goes out a lot. To some small party, movies, out with his friends or working out. He lives alone is lonely most of the time, i live with my family and alone rarely of the time. He thinks only a small percentage of the girls from here are pretty and thinks other women out of state were much more attractive.
He asks me every day what are my plans and i usually say nothing. He's has started calling me a home body who doesn't go outside and not unadventurous and its not in a good way. I'm very shy and he knows that but even though im shy i take chances. what can i do?
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You don’t seem to be at the same place in life. Either you change or he does.
Better figure out how to change your life style or you will loose him.
Maybe start by making a list of things that you enjoy doing and see if he would be interested in doing one of them. Then you do something that he likes to do.