Why does a man want a girl to chase after him?

[Anonymous]

[AviatorTom]

My father was a very smart man. He always told people that "I chased after my to-be-wife until she caught me."

[Asker]

Hmm so I should of chased after him?

[Guy13]

It’s horribly immature. He is lazy and you’ll see that in his work, home, and general attitude. It makes me angry for some reason. People afraid or too proud to lead. You will have to chase him down or stay on top of him on everything ‼️

[Sunssong]

How are you getting nearly 3x the amount of XP as other top users on this site? I can't figure it out. The only thing that makes sense is if you are spending your whole days on this site. And I always do see you on when I'm on. Is that how you're doing it or do you have like a trick to it?
You nearly have 30k xp in the last 30 days. The other top people only have 10k or much less.

[Asker]

@Sunssong you have 88 opinions
Guy has 6 thousand lol

[Anonymous]

Why does a woman want a boy to chase after her?

[Asker]

I don't know I dont do silly shit like this

[Opinion Owner]

Nobody wants to chase after someone. It's belittling and you feel manipulated. Everyone wants people to just be real and say I like you or I don't like you. The people who want you to chase are brain wash to believe it helps but it's manipulation; or they dont really want the person who is chasing but they dont mind using them to fulfill a need for the meantime.

[Asker]

Gross. Thanks

[Anonymous]

For the same reason a woman does. How is a guy supposed to know she truly wants him unless she's willing to put forth some effort?

[Asker]

Or how about
Hey this person isn't showing mutual interest let me move on

[Opinion Owner]

That's what I said. If she isn't willing to chase after him she isn't showing mutual interest.

[Asker]

It's not what you said.
What you said was "hows a guy supposed to know a girls into him if she doesn't chase after him"

[Opinion Owner]

Well how is he? You know women who have no interest in a guy show equally as much as women who do. A guy can't know if she wants him or it's just the game she's playing. Generally if a woman pursues a guy it's because she truly wants him.

[Asker]

Not all the time. Where do you get your information.
I dont chase me necessarily. Only if we've been in a relationship I will. I will continue to show my interest and make my man feel needed.
But if I dont know you or it's the talking stage in no way shape or form am I chase nor pursuing. I smile maybe wave, say hi. That's it! If he doesn't pursue after that it's his lost. As I've made it okay for him to approach. I wouldn't want to date someone unsure of what they want or someone whose unwilling to communicate with me non verbally and verbally. I domt have time for cat and mouse.

[Opinion Owner]

So what you're saying is you're above putting forth any effort. It's all on him, I see.
Where do I get my information? A lifetime of living which is longer than yours. I personally don't care what you do. I just find it comical that you're so arrogant that you don't get why men wait for women to chase after him. You're most likely just feigning ignorance. You smile and wave amd say hi. My neighbor does that 😆 pretty sure he doesn't want to date me.

[Asker]

No I never said that. I'm not chasing after a man. Period!! I will smile and wave. But me pursuing a man is a turn off. Men feel more accomplished working for shit. People dont take care of things literally thrown at them and or given to them easily. I make eye contact. If a man can't read I'm into him HIS lose he's not for me.

[Asker]

Sure I can be arrogant but your just mad... you're a man who wouldn't have the balls to approach me. I need a real man sweetie. A gentleman at that. Calls me all the names you want a real man knows what he wants and he gets what he wants. Not forcefully either and or making the girl feel small or getting her drunk. Fucking loser

[Asker]

I've chased after men and it got me no where but a wet ass.
And broken heart.
I chased after the man I'm with now he sees that and it's a shitty relationship he didn't actually want me

[Opinion Owner]

Honey I wouldn't approach you because your attitude is piss poor. I'm happy. Why would I want to approach such an angry bitter person? I'm not angry, but you're blaming ALL men because you've chased the wrong men. I would say learn from your mistakes. But I think your problems are much deeper than that. I would recommend you actually being single for a while and learning to be ok with that.

[Asker]

I agree. But I couldn't care less about you either. Calm down. Have a good dY

[Asker]

Day*

[Asker]

Whose attitude is happy about chasing after men.
You said it. Whose the right man these days. You ain't letting me know. Still keeping me in the dark about it but alright

[Opinion Owner]

Hun. You're all over the map. You can't even decide whether to insult me or ask for help. 😆😆😆
I can't help you. Only you can help you. All I can do is try to give you the tools to be successful. But you've got to want them.
My advice to you is remain single for a while and learn how to be ok with that.

[Asker]

Mmhm laugh at my pain. I plan on becoming single. Right now I'm not technically. All I wanna do is friends with benefits. Men are not all that for me these days. Only money and sex for me and some affection that's it

[Opinion Owner]

👍👍👍 sounds like a plan.

[KathrynTaylor]

Avoid. He’s messing with you.

[cluelesscluelessness]

The better question is who wouldn’t want that?

[Asker]

Why would you tho.
Have you ever been in the spot of chasing after someone? Why go through that again? And again? And again? y'all lost me with that one

[cluelesscluelessness]

It depends on what you mean by chasing, i meant in terms of a girl letting her interest be known to a guy.