Why does a man want a girl to chase him?

[Anonymous]

[Finchie40]

Because it boosts his ego and makes him feel like he is the Man. Me personally loves when a girl I find beautiful and attractive chases me. Mainly because I love a girl that looks up to me, that makes me feel valued and wanted and appreciated. Females usually know what they want and know what they are after , so if I am the guy that she is after, that is a huge turn on to me. I love submissive girls’ A girl that wants to bring happiness into my life , not misery , if she treats me like Her King , she will be my Queen for sure. As long as she stays loyal and faithful to me and knows what it means to be in a committed relationship , I will keep her by my side as much as possible as long as she treats me with kindness and respect and she has a loving caring heart to me , A girl that isn’t selfish and makes everything about herself , i can’t stand selfish girls’ that only care about themselves. If she wants me by her side she needs to treat me the same way Intreat her or it’s not going to last the long haul. She will be my top priority the same way I should be hers. Without that , we have nothing we will just be wasting each others’ time , if her and I aren’t on the same page with things

[MrOracle]

Most men don't want a woman to chase him, but they DO want her to show some interest in him, especially at the very beginning. She doesn't need to approach, but she needs to find a way to show her interest - some modern equivalent of when women used to drop their hankerchief when a man they liked walked by, giving him a reason to talk to her.

Lots of men will not approach a woman without some kind of signal of interest. And this can't be subtle - men don't "get" subtle signs, and if there's any chance she was looking at some other guy, the guy will assume it's not for him, so you need to direct those signs accurately.

[blueonblack22]

Women aren’t dumping when they are chasing. But the risk of a woman “chasing” is they are usually chasing a fantasy of who they think the guy is vs who he really is.

[MrOracle]

You mean Chad, who is rude to waiters and works really late several nights a week out of cell phone range isn't really a great guy and isn't really planning to marry me? And he's got side chicks? I'm shocked!

[blueonblack22]

I get what you are saying. But it always seems one type of guy gets “his foot the door” a lot easier than other guys do.

Talk is cheap. I see what women typically go after vs those they ignore. No all women but a large percentage of them.

[Nikki1989]

Everyone wants love, and the ones who say they don't are lying OR are so bitter and twisted they have actually convinced themselves they don't need a woman. Either way, it must be horrible to be so miserable.

[Inbox]

What about all those women who say they don’t need a man?

[Ms_Facesitter]

If only he does all the chasing, it sends mixed signals.

[Avicenna]

Because it's fun for him

[Asker]

He knows she doesn’t want him tho

[Avicenna]

So he isn't going to expect her to chase him then

[Asker]

But he does expect it

[Avicenna]

nope

[Anonymous]

Because men too like to know they are valued, attractive, masculine, etc. We have just as many insecurities as women do when comes to wanting be loved and wanted. But we aren’t allowed to talk about it.

Just because we can’t demand attention the same women do doesn’t mean we don’t want it.

Also the best relationships are when the women slightly (and heavily empathize slightly) is more into the man the vice versa. That will help the relationship survive her shit testing and bitchy moments.

[KrisKris81]

Usually, he doesn't. This has happened to me before. Either I was nice to her when she was feeling vulnerable, or some guy who was into her saw me as a threat, or I had no idea she existed. In every case she thought I was playing hard-to-get and I had to deal with her blaming me for some kind of "emotional imprissionment." If he does want to be chased, he might have a more feminine view of relationships and you are just being a stalker. I apologize for sounding a little cruel, but dealing with bro, daddy, uncle, cousin, friend, etc because some girl I barely knew (or didn't know at all) locked herself up in her feelings is an irritating experience, to say the least. Find someone else.

[TommyMountainFigure]

If a man was to ask that question in reverse.

Why does a girl want a man to chase her? Do you think she would say to boost her ego, and to make him see she isn't easy?

Well the same applies to both sexes in that regard!

[Telekinetic-Potato]

It helps quell the fear that they were never loved in the first place. It's only natural to expect someone to fight for what they love and want to hold close

[spartan55]

Most men don't. The dipshit game players might, so there you go.

[genericname85]

cause it feels validating. women of all people should understand this cause you guys seek it all the time.

[strateguy632]

i don't want chase but she initiate is nice.

[bobby_bush_eater]

Why does a girl want a guy to chase her?

It feels good to be wanted... It boosts your ego too

[SolitarySolace]

Because if women want to be taken care of the men should be the one she is going after. Men going after women makes no sense.

[DarkWinterNights]

It’s not socially acceptable for men to chase anymore

[Anonymous]

Could be any number of reasons. He wants to gauge her interest. His ego needs a boost. He's too shy to pursue her. Lots of possibilities.

[Unit1]

who doesn't love being fancied by the opposite sex? The Gays?

[Anonymous]

Thats very stupid. A girl shouldn't expend energy for a boy. The acceptance she providing is very valuable. Dont forget it.

[Nifrayu]

Why not?

[Vegasrunner]

Only way relationships last. The woman needs to be constantly seeking the man's valodation.

[Anonymous]

Isn’t it a girls job to do the chasing? I mean asker if I chased you that would be considered weird and creepy, if a girl does it it’s considered cute/sweet/sexy all wrapped in one.

[ethansf]

I don't. It's nice to be desired but that's a different matter.

[SpaceGalaxy]

1- he is a chicken shit who is scared of rejection therefore he does not chase

2- he thinks he is too good for most women

[Kingofkings1992]

**sigh. We all know women don’t chase men, so not sure why this post exists

[Asker]

My guy best friend wants me to chase him

[Asker]

That’s why I made this post

[IslaTheWitch]

the same reason why women like to be chased