Why would a guy want a girl to chase him even though he wants her?

[Anonymous]

[ChicoFromThe305]

It's the best way to avoid games, men have to play a game to win a woman over, if a woman goes for what she's interest in, they don't have to play a game cause many men are simple and they surely won't try to play games if a woman shows interest, that along with the fact that lots of women aren't worth chasing and it's like mixing M&Ms from two different factories and trying to figure out which is from which factory, good quality women know what they want and if they want it they won't play games trying to get it

A small glimpse of the life of a regular guy looking for a partner is a lot more strategy than anything to be honest because many women don't seem to fully admit what they think they expect you to figure it out and the only way to do so is by chasing them unless you see them trying to chase You, that shows interest, we live in a society where most marriages fail and women don't deal with rejection as much as men, rejection unmotivates because even if y'all get rejected y'all can go to the next, a man has to pick up his strategy and redo it on someone else, every single time or come up with a new one cause with personality there's new strategies, it's way more exhausting to chase for a man than it is for a woman.

[Effably]

Swap the genders. If the question suddenly makes or does not make sense, there is your answer.

As for the simple reason? Feeling desired by people you want is very pleasant. Being 'chased' is an incredibly lazy way of feeling desired by, rather than having to reciprocate or be interesting, only having to withhold interest.

So.. because being chased is really nice. And because being lazy is also very nice.

Of course some will have other reasons. Not surprised if someone loves the role reversal of it and it makes them feel validated as a person. But for most people.. its about being wanted, needed, desired, craved for, so on.

[DaveJord]

Because every young man learns from a relatively young age that chasing women never really works out. If she is not putting out any effort to be with you, make time for you, or say nice things to you, but is more than willing to accept you attention for what it is... then it will never work.

Guys will chase after women for sex, but if she is not chasing back... then sex is all she has to offer, and that might be enough for short time... but in the long run he will lose interest.

[Asker]

Why won’t he move on then?

[virtue2332]

He's probably insecure and it gives him reassurance. I think is kind of immature and juvenile unless it's light hearted fun.

[serious]

Maybe he is not the type of man who can pursue a woman. Does not have those skills.

[syncheart]

I think he just wants confirmation that she likes him.

[Anonymous]

I doubt he wants you to chase him. Just talk to him.

[Asker]

He does want someone to chase him. He wanted me to ask him out.

[Opinion Owner]

So do if your interested.

[Asker]

I’m not interested in him. I’m upset he got everyone thinking I want him and then he got his friend to tell me to get back into contact with him.

[jahaims]

He is immature