Is it Bad that I Have Over 10 Dating Deal Breakers And or Red Flags?

[Shiningtempest]

I am asking this question because would it be problematic to have over 10 dating deal breakers or red flags (e. g. vegan/vegetarian, love traveling, liberal, etc). All else equal, I'd rather date a chatbot than date a person because it won't come with red flags or deal breakers.

[Guy13]

High Standards are attractive, however, one needs to be strategically located in areas where one will find the same thinkers. This mostly means the South and Southeast up to North Carolina.

[KathrynTaylor]

It’s unrealistic to have too many red flag ideas. Looks wise. But if you’re not proud to introduce them to your family, you shouldn’t date them.

[Shiningtempest]

I don't see the point of introducing them to my family knowing there are around 50% chance of a dating ending in heartache.

[KathrynTaylor]

That’s a really cynical worldview, but I can’t laugh at it.

[Shiningtempest]

@KathrynTaylor Even if I'm dating a good person, I wouldn't introduce them to my family because I don't want my parents to develop attachment to them.

[KathrynTaylor]

Why is that? Do you not like your family?

[Shiningtempest]

@KathrynTaylor I don't want my parents to have any emotional attachment to them.

[KathrynTaylor]

Why not?

[Shiningtempest]

@KathrynTaylor Does it logically make sense to introduce them to my parents knowing that dating is volatile?

[KathrynTaylor]

Yes, if there’s a good person you want to commit to.

[In_Trance]

at the same time, I bet you sit alone in your childhood bedroom every weekend

[Shiningtempest]

I'd rather be in my own room over meeting people with other deal breakers such as person over age of 30, and follows religion.