I am asking this question because I was wondering is it bad to avoid dating a woman who displays multiple red flags (flirty, working long hours, divorced at least once, etc). All else equal, I'd rather be a bachelor than date a woman who flirts, work long hours, & so on.
I like what bogboss said about red flags for YOU.
There's too many wanna be alphas on YouTube talking about "red flags" in women like, "If she has tattoos. That's a red flag guys! Tattoos are masculine. She wants to be a man and put your balls in a meat grinder!"
Seems pretty clear, if she has traits that make you not want to date her, then don't. Its fine to want what YOU want as long as you realize that other people may want different things
Nah, they're red flags for a reason.
You know what you don't like, why would you pursue it?
No, knowing your red flags and avoiding people who have them saves the time of everyone involved.
Opinion
1Opinion
u If they are red flags for u then why would u date them
The only opinion from girls was selected the Most Helpful Opinion, but you can still contribute by sharing an opinion!
You can also add your opinion below!
Most Helpful Opinions