He only just come out of a relationship 2 months ago? Is this a red flag for dating?

[Anonymous]

He only just came out of a relationship 2 months ago. I thought it was way longer but I just found out it was 2 and we are kinda seeing each other? Would someone who’s been in a long term relationship be ready after 2 months. I’m starting to see signs he isn’t? I mean if that was me I wouldn’t want to be in a relationship straight after but I don’t know? I try to ask him these things but I just feel like he dosent wanna speak about it. Is this a bad sign shall I run? It just seems 2 months is so frequent and he has a restraining order on her and I just feel like it seems like drama?

[melanieeeB]

Damn the restraining order would make me run haha Who knows what things will happen...


To your question tho some few can be ready for a new relationship, cause they're already emotionally done with the relationship before they really officially broke up but most of the time it's a bad idea to date someone who is just out of a relationship... and him not really answering your questions seems like an indicator for this being a rebound...

[SexyRedd1966]

Yes, that is a rebound and he does sound like drama... keep it moving, she probably has a restraining order on him too.

[Anonymous]

It depends. What signs exactly are you seeing that are making you think he’s not ready? Some people may be ready to move on after 2 months. Now if he was the one who got dumped, he may not be ready for something new as he had his heart pulled out from his chest not the other way around.

[In_Trance]

Proceed with caution