Dating

Aam I overthinking it?

So i had a date just a few days ago , i dint know it was a date but we were set up together and it made everyone so happy including my friend, and his older brother (the ones who set us up in the first place) . We went to the movies and he grabs my hand which for some reason made me feel uncomfortable , but i got over it and 100% started feeling the feeling everyone gets which is one of the best feelings. However he then puts his hand on my thigh which im not sure i like.. but i know its something a lot of girls like so i was fine with it it was just giving me an overwhelming feeling. So three days later we were on the phone and he mentioned how he doesn't like how my thigh is very muscly. he said its "weird". i kind of took it to heart. i am a very lean girl , im maybe 9% body fat, and im VERY muscly. i play a ton of sports one including gymnastics and Track which require great muscle mass. I take creatine, and my legs especially have very minimal body fat. However lets draw back to just 3 hours before the conversation about my thigh; he lashed out at me for stress eating with ice cream over a test i had, i got a B and wanted an A and he told me im a "healthy girl" and can not eat ice cream over it. I never eat off, im always trying to be healthy, and i made sure this morning to run all the calories that i ate from the ice cream off. Am i overthinking this? should i not be taking it to heart? And what do i do? Thank you!

Aam I overthinking it?
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