What's it like dating a police officer? Or having a police officer for a girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

What's it like to have a police officer for a girlfriend? I work for my local police station as a civilian worker and see this charming female officer who I would love to take for dessert. And not just any dessert. Homemade dessert, like a piece of homemade nutty bar pudding pie and tea. I believe more so in homemade foods more than restaurants nowadays. If she declines, than of course there's other cops I can ask, lol. But if she were to say yes, what exactly would life be like: a civilian and a cop dating, or even getting into a relationship? What would this be like?

[coachTanthony]

I have dated several law enforcement types and their life is so hectic it's just not worth it to me. This is why they always said to me their ex was this or that but most of all they were also in law enforcement so they tend to stick to their own because they understand the lifestyle.

[Anonymous]

another cop you can ask? really?

do either of these women show any amount of interest in you? if they don't, they'll likely say no... do you even know if they're married or have a relationship already? you need to do research first before doing all of this as a homemade dessert can come off a bit strong. that's just me.

[melanieeeB]

Just ask her.

Everyone is different personality wise and someone's profession doesn't say anything about a person

[Guy13]

No idea except for family friends…on In military service and other in a 3 million City. Stressful as hell and take no 💩 kind of people. Nice but not quite right but in a good way…not psychotic. Their wives and kids feel very secure and easy about life.

[Anonymous]

Honestly I'd imagine it's like this. I served in Iraq and Afghanistan and females deployed aren't loyal and because they think nobody will find out and because they are surrounded by horny men they get banged sometimes 6 at a time

[SpokenTruth]

Assuming I would date to begin with, no thanks. I know how they are they are indoctrinated to believe man's law is always right no matter what and they will assume you are guilty of something if you were to ask them for advice.

[Asker]

Assumptions usually are made by "ass"-es, that "ump"s usually "tion (shun)." Guilt that they fail to own up to usually leads somewhere not good. And it usually is not the victim's fault. Man's law should not get to their head like so.

[chronic22]

Gotta think about it I mean she's a cop you can't go over the speed limit or if you run a red light if she says she's fine with you going over the speed limit you end up doing something saying something she don't like so she waits till you do something illegal and she gives you a ticket for it or arrest you probably best to not date a cop

Better to have more power than the one your dating

[zagor]

Uh, cops exceed the speed limit while off-duty all the time.

[Mansearching]

It feels the same if she worked at Mickey D's or Wal-Mart or Sonic or Subway.

[Anonymous]

It's like having the police breathing down your neck the whole time. Imagine living together like that.

[Chazmatazz269]

You are in-fucking-sane if you choose to date someone who can legally murder you for any reason or no reason at all.

[Asker]

There's no such thing as legal murder kiddo. That's a legal life or legal death penalty heading her direction. Vengeance is God's, not man's.

[Chazmatazz269]

False. Women get away with murder all the time and so do cops. A female cop has very little to fear in terms of the law in the west.
God isn’t here anymore, and that rhetoric hasn’t changed the world for the better, has it?

[Asker]

Of course women get away with murder all the time. Supply her with a badge and gun, and she'll be getting away with ten times much of it. Getting away with murder doesn't mean you won't pay a horrifying penalty for it. It doesn't matter if you a man or a woman, a civilian or a cop, in the east or in the west. The God I speak of does not discriminate like this world does, and that "rhetoric" comes with a reward according to everyone's deeds. Does she for a moment think that if she can step on people that she won't get stepped on back?

[Chazmatazz269]

Again, provide evidence that the “god” to which you refer has made such injustice go away or don’t respond.

[Asker]

Where do you get your breath from?

[Mayo503]

Normal no problem lol

[Jmmmfi4]

I hate cops so this would never happen