Iv always loved older women?

[Anonymous]

Hi there, Iv always thought that older women are so much better looking I love the life experience and maturity that comes with age I’m always fearful of looking to young I’m now 30 and have facial hair around the mouth would a older woman see me as to young? I always dress like a man not like a boy I’m only asking because it’s now been 10 years since I’ve had a massive crush on my ex hairdresser the funny thing is that I’m now also a hairdresser I had a career change and she inspired me i miss her everyday and night any help will be appreciated thank you

[HollyK21]

We spoke extensively about this a few months ago, and when I suggested you thank her for inspiring you and maybe ask her out, you said that wasn’t possible because your aunt still gets her hair done by her. I’m also pretty sure you said something about her not wanting to date with an age gap. So what other advice could suffice when dating isn’t an option?

[Asker]

Thank you for your reply I know we did go over this a few months ago my aunt knows that she means a very much to me the main thing is that I sadly never had my chance to tell her that I feel so strongly for her I really have thought about thanking her for inspiring me I might try something

[HollyK21]

I’m pretty sure this was the same juncture you were at last time. I advised stopping by to thank you and maybe ask her out, but you said you were afraid to because you didn’t want to mess up things for your aunt, like being dropped as a client. Is that still the hold up?

[HollyK21]

*to thank her

[Asker]

No it’s not I’m afraid of her rejecting me I asked her out a few times 5 years ago I’m so depressed because I love her and can’t get over her

[HollyK21]

Well, I’d still suggest the same thing. It’s been 5 years so maybe she’s in a different place and you could try asking her out again

[Asker]

I know it has and I am 5 years older than Back then and I’m fully qualified hairdresser your right she maybe in a different place now I still have her number sadly not her mobile number all I want is to tell her that Iv been in love with her since 2013 !