Should I give up my standards and date men I don’t like or stay single forever? (Page 2)

Question

Whenever I like a man, they don’t like me back. Or better, usually they flirt with me and lead me on and then let me know they don’t like me. The only guys who openly hit on me are guys I find physically unattractive and huge losers. As soon as a guy is interesting and handsome, just flirting. My friends tell me if I’m unhappy alone it’s my fault because I’m not giving a chance to the losers. Should I lower my standards? Do the cool ones not like me because I come up as an ugly loser too?

Dragonstarterplus · Answer

What exactly do you bring to a relationship?

Bricealan · Answer

Never lower your standards to meet someone else's standards. Never.

Mansearching · Answer

You may want to reduce your standards. You may have them so high that no one fits them. Got to give and take.

PepePatriot · Answer

Or... you can work on yourself and become "high value" like the dudes you want to date

Still-alive · Answer

how are they losers? what about them makes them that to you?

SunnyRS · Answer

Stay single.  It's better to be with someone you like rather then settle with someone you don't.  But never set your standards so high that no living being can reach them.

scooogy · Answer

You can be prettier than Britney Spears, but as soon as personal things like bowel movements come up, I'm out the door. That's just ugly if no positive things count in here.

Anonymous · Answer

Check out the female delusion calculator. I guarantee, you have an impossible to reach expectation

ThomasDavid1989 · Answer

Whenever I like a girl they're one of three things 1. Gay 2. Taken 3. Not into me Am I just chasing the wrong type of women?

Iron_Man · Answer

You’re looking in the wrong places for guys try church those are serious guys at least some of them are

Anonymous · Answer

By all means keep seeking Mr. Perfect. As a 5 you should totally hold out for a 10.

JesseP1nk · Answer

We dont know your standards, so how we would know if your standards are too high or not? Also, what you have offer for the guy?

gorydetails · Answer

If the only guys into you are ugly and losers, you may want to take a look in the mirror.

driven159 · Answer

If that is how you feel about men, it would be better for men that you stay single.

OddBeMe · Answer

I guess study your standards and see if they’re actually better.

shortster · Answer

Yes, if you are not getting any dates you should adjust your standards.

iSensei · Answer

I think you need stay alone if u dont like hangout about these guys u say

Anonymous · Answer

Try expanding your dating pool to different guys.

Anonymous · Answer

Single for ever is the best way, at least you end up richer for it

Anonymous · Answer

No honey why settle and be unhappy? I rather stay single (which isn’t a death sentence) you have to have confidence, know/like who you are and be solid within to know that being single is ok.

mgall · Answer

I have no standards whatsoever and I'm still single. Call me

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe be more realistic but don’t settle just for anyone or you will regret it

DermalPunch · Answer

No. And you know you shouldn't.

Part2603 · Answer

Definitely. You loser.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Stay single, don't stoop to date a regular human.

Stevefiveo · Answer

Stick to your standards. Don't date losers.

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

maybe try reflecting on yourself,

pethouse · Answer

Well what exactly are your standards?

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

Single forever. It ain’t bad

Anonymous · Answer

No, never lower your standards.

Anonymous · Answer

Why not date men you like?

Anonymous · Answer

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