Why should men have to jump through hoops just to get a girlfriend or even sex?

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Just work your ass off and accumulate money for 20 years bro, just go to the gym obsessively bro, work on X, Y, and Z. What the fuck is this and why is it justified? Women don't have to do all this, previous generations of men didn't.

How about we call it what it is, it's not men's fault, it's women's fault. They're greedy and delusional. They right swipe 4% of men on Tinder. Are you a top 4% women or anywhere even close? 🤡🤡🤡

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

The good picks of men will be fit. What's wrong with that, men also pick good looking and fit women, we do even more to look pretty than men. Because men are even more looking for visual attraction, and women are looking for financial in return. As a man you don't need to look like god to get a pretty woman if you have money. As a woman you do, because no man would take you if you are not even if you have more money. But it doesn't mean that you do not need to take care of yourself, thus being fit and healty is great.

Women who look for men that make a lot of money should also bring other things to the table like being a housewife or so. Because this are trad couple characteristics. If not they do not need their man to be a provider so they can both earn less.

Tinder doesn't really work. Men look for sex there and women commitment. The top 4% of men there are players and they know how to get into womans pants, but are not really top 4% of men, no woman wants to date guys like that. The top percent of men would be in my oppinion those that are husband material.

As for differences from older generations, it is a different world now. Feminism did a lot of damage in arguing gender roles. And yes dating is hard. Even for women because it is hard to find a good man just like it is hard to find a good woman nowadays.

Dinklex3 · Accepted Answer

You don’t have to do anything, lol.

Men who do that do so because they want to.
They want to be fit, they want to feel good, they like having money and being an independent adult.

If you don’t want to do that, then don’t. No one is forcing you.

SteveSmith1985 · Accepted Answer

What are you talking about dude. Do you know any girls? Have you ever talked to any? Because this is some bullshit. This is not what men have to do. Nor is it what men are doing. This is insane.

4% of men aren't getting 100% of female interest. Or anything even close. Not even in that universe. That's absurd on its face. Look at the young couples around you in real life. Like your neighbors. Is it really only the top tier rich or amazing looking guys who get a girlfriend/wife? Of course not.

You're poisoning your own mind by believing this horseshit. Lift your head up and look around you. This is not what's happening.

Guy13 · Accepted Answer

I’m not jumping through hoops and never have. Let’s see…sports scholarship, 3.89 double major and minor year around including summers, advanced degrees, real Job.

I made it so I had my 💩 together.

Paul_in_Indy · Answer

In my experience, the hoops you need to jump through are all related to paying attention to women, responding to women, focusing on what women want, etc. If you aren’t willing to do that kind of work then you probably will not be successful chasing women

notwoke · Answer

there are an endless number of desperate women your age who can't get a man to commit and you can use them for sex practically "at will". The modern culture and laws and "equality" have made marriage untenable for men so take advantage of it.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Supply and demand. Women on average are more in demand than men.

Filthy_Immigrant · Answer

Because we millennials and gen z men were unfortunate enough to be cucked and castrated by not just feminism but by other things like Disney movies, porn, etc

Anonymous · Answer

Why worry about it man? Do all those things for you. If you're doing any of them for women you're doing them for the wrong reason to begin with. I never worry about women that shun me. Because most are not on my level anyways. If they're smart at some point the figure that out and come back. Then I tell them to kick rocks.

exitseven · Answer

If getting a girlfriend was easy then everyone would have one,

Oldschool1981 · Answer

I dated a woman for three months: no sex, no kissing, not even a hug. The second I dumped her she was suddenly ready, but nope. Too late. She had a wide open shot at a long term relationship but chose to be a lonely. sexless, incel instead.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Because women are still women, and 100 years of feminism isn't going to change the fact that they still want to feel loved, cherished, and like they are special.

LuvMeSomeBoys · Answer

Do you feel better now after getting that off your chest?

Anonymous · Answer

Then don't bother. The good men will always rise to the top, while whiners like yourself will always be losers.

NostalgiaSenpi · Answer

Then, why not live for yourself, or find one of those services that sets you up with a foreign woman from a poor country? If you have the money, use it.

Anonymous · Answer

LOL. Knowing you'll spend your whole life bitter and alone brings me great joy.

clampfan101 · Answer

The best things in life are almost always the most difficult to get. That’s just how the world works.

LazerBean · Answer

The average man from previous generation make the modern man look like children. You really need to actually associate with the older generation of you think that's true.

boobliker · Answer

thats life and then you die lol it all ways been that way

KrakenAttackin · Answer

All true. Let's add that women will drain Chad Thundercock:s balls even if she is married to you.

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